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November 20, 2019, 10:21:51 PM
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I'm a 24 male and lost my virginity last week to my 19 y/o girlfriend, I feel I made a complete mess of it though and need to improve.

Firstly we started with condoms but the problem I had was once I was inside her I couldnt feel anything happening to me (almost like it was in a vacuum) and because of this I kept going soft.. I'm obviously extremely attracted to her so that isn't the issue. After about an hour of this issue we decided to try without condoms (shes taken pill since) and then the issue I had was that I went too fast. I felt myself edging so stopped but unlike when I'm masturbating I couldn't seem to hold it on the edge and bad to pull out to finish (with her nearly there but not quite)

But the worst thing I found was the grinding. We did missionary with me on top and this might sound stupid but I literally couldn't grind for long periods, I started well for maybe 20 seconds but then it became a bit like the 'rub your tummy & pat your head' thing where your brain gets confused and cant do it anymore.. I literally couldn't grind for long periods. So she started breathing heavy and moaning like she was getting close to finishing but then my body just couldn't grind anymore and had to stop which was really frustrating.

So the 3 areas I mainly struggled with are:
- Staying 'hard' with a condom on
- Not finishing too soon when not using a condom
- Grinding for long periods

Does anyone have any tips on these especially the grinding??

 

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