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Author Topic: Sex tips for unsatisfied 18 yo guy

September 17, 2019, 10:03:28 PM
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Im an 18 guy and Ive had 3 partners before, I feel like having a good sex life is the last piece of the puzzle I need in my life.
None of these partners  were my girlfriend, but ive done it a few times with two of them. There's multiple things that bother me, first of all I don't last as much as I would like to, the last two times I had sex, I lasted less than a minute, I almost came instantly! I then either continued to have sex with a used condom or put another one and continued with my semi hard penis. Im never able to go for a second round, I try but always end up losing my erection or just stopping because Im not horny anymore. Lastly Im not to confident about my size, I have average length, but my erect girth is 4.25 which is under the average.
So basically having sex is not really fun for me, and Im not really satisfying the girls im with. It affects me because I used to love pursuing women and playing the game of seduction, but now I just feel like its pointless because the end goal is not rewarding. Ive been having troubles with my self esteem and this adds more weight to it.
But Ive been a practical person for most of my life and realize that genes are just luck and I have to work with what I have.
So from now on I am willing to become very dedicated with a practice if I know it will be beneficial to my sexual performance in the end.
Ive started jelquing (for lenght and girth) dont know if actually helps?
I wanna know if kegels help for stamina? Maybe some diet and exercises too?
But Im mainly looking for some hope that I will be able to become sexually satisfied in the future.
If you used to be like me or know someone that was in the same situation, please share your story and help a brother out.

September 21, 2019, 06:39:10 PM
Reply #1


I joined the navy when I was 17 years old and after boot camp  I was on a ship and traveled to Europe

In the 3 years I was in I  had sex with over 85 women all but three were married

The older women taught me how to maintain an erection and really satisfy  them

 I became so confident I even had a few threesomes with two women at once

Doing oral to one while having intercourse with the other and stopping before ejulation.

With lots of practice an erection can last over an hr  as it will become a little flaccid  but with a lot of foreplay it will get right back to work

Have patience 


October 24, 2019, 01:42:30 AM
Reply #2


Hi joe!
Your problems are very common,so don't panic.
Its all on your mind bro! Train your mind. I have trained my mind so that i can fuck brains out 30 mins straight. Be confident,focus on foreplay try to connect with your girl.
And try to add vegetables and fruits like almonds to your diet.it will help. And if there is no improvement then feel free to consult a physician. :)

November 05, 2019, 08:58:52 AM
Reply #3

Captain Black

Your problem is very common in young guys. You could try desensitising gel/cream ( not the type for teeth ! )

Learn the art of foreplay your partner will thank you for it .

Your stamina will get better over time as you get more experienced .

Don't worry about your size its what you do with it that counts ! I have seen more problems with guys with big appendages that have the problems normally associated with hurting their partner . I think you will find that being average in this department is often the  best way to be  ;)
« Last Edit: November 05, 2019, 09:02:42 AM by Captain Black »

January 10, 2020, 01:07:32 AM
Reply #4


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January 10, 2020, 06:32:50 PM
Reply #5


hey dude! i'm 23 now and have been having sex since i was 18. almost always condom sex, sometimes with girls, most of the time with a hot buddy of mine when we fuck in our blue jeans, haha!! so hot.

but dude, i mean, you said you put on a "used" condom, wtf? how did you even put it on?? no way, man! you gotta use new condoms always.

and you gotta learn how to "edge." edging is great, once you get the hang of it. edging is teasing your body, getting to the point of orgasm and cumming, and then stop, cool off, then go at it again, and again, and again, and again, for as long as you can take it, until you go crazy with feeling the frustration of "almost cumming" but not letting yourself go over the edge. totally awesome stuff, man.

takes lots of practice, mind and body control. but it's really worth it. your body will feel intense sensations, that you make last long by edging. you will moan with pleasure! and you'll accumulate lots of cum for the end. in the meantime, your condom is catching all your pre-cum, haha!!

when your body can't hold it back any more, get to the edge of orgasm one last time, hold your breath as you start to cum, and you'll feel totally mind-blowing, body shuddering sensations. mmmmmm. go for it. have fun. play safe. and enjoy it! 8)
« Last Edit: January 10, 2020, 06:34:37 PM by sexy_boy_23 »


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