When I first met him I wasn’t sure if I found him attractive physically, but I was attracted to his personality, he was kind, affectionate, honest, down to Earth, as I got to know him I loved his values, the way he talked about family, his loyalty. And then I did find him attractive, he is good looking, but there’s never been tons of sexual chemistry, not like previous one night stands I’ve had. And there was always problems with premature ejaculation so that made it a little harder, long heated satisfying good sessions were rare, I gave up expecting it. Now we don’t have tons of sex but when we do it’s either very loving or very unsatisfying for me. Im happy in this relationship and I love him but sometimes I think back to some of the best drunken one night stands I’ve had, and I miss it, but I’d never trade it for what I have. Everything else is so great, can I live with this part not being great? Can it improve over time? I love him I don’t want to give him up