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Author Topic: Setting a high standard for sex on the first time.

June 05, 2019, 11:47:03 AM
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troubled21y


So, I have been dating quite a bit in the last few years and I have some experience in sex with dating a girl for 2 years and having sex multiple times a everyday. Now I have some questions related when having sex with a girl I would like to date for the first time.

But first my situation is this.. When I have sex first time with someone I put all my sex drive in it and pleasure them as much as I can. I usually discard my own needs just to pleasure my companion to my best abilities. NOW after the sex or sometime later I usually get told that they had never felt as good as they had with me and this is sometimes from people who I only kissed, massaged and touched sensitively. But the problem comes if i start dating for a longer period of time and the starting sex drive falls off/ I don't usually have the energy to put 30min-1h to foreplay.

SO am I creating a high standard or too high expectations for the sex life in the relationship when I do it in the first night but i know it will be less frequent in later times? Or is it okay and understandable for this to happen or is it natural? Is really good sex something that can confuse a girl to like me even if we were not compatible?

 

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