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Author Topic: Prefer sexual contant to sex - Is this normal!?

February 18, 2020, 08:26:09 AM
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So I'm 24 and lost my virginity last year to my current girlfriend- She is the only one I've ever had and the only girl I've ever done anything more than make-out with.

She is absolutely gorgeous- definitely punching!! In terms of the physical side of the relationship I'd say we have sex maybe every couple of weeks (both live with parents so struggle to get a free house!).. and in regards to sexual contact maybe twice a week.

The strange thing is though I prefer the times when we have 'sexual contact' rather than the sex itself. When I say sexual contact I usually either finger her or eat her out, and she gives me usually a handjob but sometimes blowjob.

When we have sex I struggle to feel much as I usually wear a condom.. and always think theres a pressure for me to perform. But when we have sexual contact i'm more relaxed and just enjoy the experience to a different level.. It turns me on so much to finger / eat her out, and I love the feeling of her hands rubbing up and down me (or mouth/teeth on the odd times she gives me a BJ).

Is there anyone else out there that prefers 'sexual contact' to sex itself??

February 18, 2020, 04:32:09 PM
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ya dude, i’m 23 and have been having sex since i was 18. Mostly condom sex, with girls and with a hot buddy of mine when we have fun in our jeans, haha.

Yeah, sexual contact can be very satisfying but that’s just another form of sex. Foreplay, touching, heavy kissing, licking, sucking, etc. It's all part of sex, dude!

I always use the thinnest condoms with delay lube to get a more natural feel and last longer. And practice edging sex, which is totally awesome stuff, man.

I keep giving into what my body wants to feel, teasing my body like crazy, getting up to the edge of almost cumming and feeling a buildup to a huge orgasm, stop short, cool off a bit, and go at it again and again and again and again until I can't hold it back anymore.

Really increases the sensations and prolongs the pleasure. And my condom is catching all the precum haha!!

I'm very physical and sensual about sex. And edging is great. The really intense orgasm in the end blows my senses away and my condom gets filled with loads of cum.

Try out some really really thin condoms with delay lube, put em on right, hold the tip closed as you roll it down so that no air gets inside. Condoms aren't too bad if they're really thin, you put em on right, and practice intense and prolonged edging.

Lasting longer is just great cause you feel more intense pleasure for a longer time. And edging gives you more time for foreplay, touching, kissing, licking, sucking, rubbing...

Know how to edge and last long, and you'll see just how good sex can feel, dude. And you'll help your girl, buddy, etc. enjoy more intense sex with you.

have fun!
« Last Edit: February 18, 2020, 04:34:09 PM by sexy_boy_23 »

 

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