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Author Topic: No sex. Is this normal?

May 15, 2019, 02:37:19 PM
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Lisa786


I have been seeing a guy for the past 8 weeks. We previously dated each other 4 years ago and have known each other for 9 years. He wasn't ready for a commitment, well I thought he wasn't but he just wanted me to be patient and I pushed him away. Anyhow, he contacted me in December and it took me a while to decide if I wanted to let him in again. So previously we have had sex in the past. This time things are different. He knows what he wants, says he misses me and we talk every day. If things work out we will end up moving in together and getting married. But will sleep in different rooms til marriage.  So here it is. When we see each other there is fireworks, we kiss passionately and touch each other and each other's parts. I'm not ready for Sex at the moment because I want to know it's long term first. And he has said he doesn't want to have sex again until we are Married. But we touch each other and everything else other than sexy. And if we move in together we will stay in different bedrooms until marriage. Is this normal
for a guy to change like this? We had sex in the past and he hasn't had sex in a long time and wants to wait

May 23, 2019, 07:33:33 AM
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gummybear94


Sometimes it just happens. It takes a person time to figure out what they want and I'm guessing he wants to see if you'll actually stay with him regardless if you guys go all the way or not.

June 01, 2019, 02:45:09 PM
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Alyssa39


Sex is very important, there was times where we would go months and months then eventually we where fighting not getting along my relationship  was falling apart  with my husband, we tried counseling and it didn't work for us. It was like beating a dead horse. We agreed to keep trying since we have children. With lots of online research I found our solution.. date nights and amazing sex lost first it was a bit awkward since we hadn't had sex in months but quickly things turned around. We started private dance classes once a week and  would treat ourself to a fun couples box that really spiced up our life . Our love life was boring and when you dont have fun as a couple and have that connection things dont seem to work .. now every season we buy a love box from a retailer.  the box has games and new products to try together. It keeps us laughing trying new things and connects us in ways  I never thought we could again.. so  I think sex is a very important aspect in a relationship and without sex eventually
Things will just get worst or a partner will look else where for sex but it's honestly just finding ways that work for you to connect because connection in many ways is so very important in a relationship
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