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March 13, 2020, 10:39:27 AM
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ellynna


Hi guys. Ive been married to him for almost 2 years. We've been in a long distance relationship even before we got married. We tried our best to meet each other for at least once per month and of course to have sex during that time.

Initially i realised that my husband doesnt usually cum during our sex. What we always do, we start with a short foreplay, then usually he'll ask me to climb on top of him ( which the only way i can cum for the time being). After i cum, he just stop. Even if i continue to ride him, he'll just said he doesnt feel like cumming.  :(

It has been like that for a year plus. I always love to try new position but he'll only do me missionary or cowgirl. I love sucking his dick, but it takes like forever to get him cum. He can stay erect all the time, but he cannot cum.

Lately i realised that i seems like dont excite him anymore. He seems like doesnt want to make love with me. What made me feel so sad was that i wanna have sex with him, but then his dick turned limp once he saw me naked.  :(

Am i not that attractive anymore? I tried to talk about it but he said it's just him, not me. Honestly i wanna spice things up in my sex life, but end up only me having one time orgasm and that's it.

Help me. What should i do?

Ps he can still get an orgasm from masturbating.

March 18, 2020, 07:16:42 AM
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lookn4truth69


do you know if he watches porn and jacks off? (sorry to be crude, but trying to be speedy and getting straight to the point) if he does regularly maybe see if he can hold off for a few days.

April 22, 2020, 04:25:49 AM
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Yeayea


I suggest suing a vibrating cock ring it will give him and you more sensation and that will probably make him cum...not a regular one tho one like https://www.hang-lower.com/collections/vibrating-messagers/products/vibrating-penis-extender-condom

April 24, 2020, 04:33:41 PM
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jimnt


Is he taking tricyclic antidepressants? Those can surely do it.  I could go like a porn star forever and ever.


Is he taking illicit drugs?  Is his testosterone low? Is he jerking off too much? Is that position not what he needs?  IS he afraid of getting you pregnant?

 

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