Hi all!
It’s been a long-held fantasy of my husbands for us to have a MMF threesome. After a long while talking about it and all the ‘what if’s’ I’m finally at the point where I’m really excited by the prospect of it.
We’ve joined RHP this week and have been chatting with 2 different guys who both seem lovely and we’d be keen to catch up with initially to see if there’s a connection.
They both seem like they’d approach it completely differently (both have experience with couples) - one is pretty laid back, seems happy to meet for a drink or 2 and see what happens without too many expectations around what we specifically want to try etc.
The other is a non drinker, (not an issue but I’ll probably want to have a couple of wines beforehand to relax) and is really detailed in conversation about exactly what we want to try and seems to want to have a full plan in place of exactly what will happen.
I’m not sure which is more standard, and to be honest I’m not even sure exactly what I want? I don’t think I’m into DP, so what other guidelines should I be thinking about? I guess I was hoping it could happen quite naturally and not feel like a manufactured set up, am I kidding myself?
And advice or experiences welcome!! Thanks in advance 🙏🙏🙏🙏