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Author Topic: lust lost

December 28, 2019, 09:28:38 AM
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I have a problem many men in my situation have with a twist.

I have been married for pushing 30 years, and i wouldnt call it a sexless marriage, my wife and i do still have sex on occasion, but i feel there is a definite lack of passion in it. most times it feels like were just "going through the motions" to reach the finish line. Frankly, if getting to the finish line is the only goal, i can take care of that myself. a good part of what turns me on is turning her on. without that,  i kind of lose interest. i love my wife dearly and dont want to lose her, but this is really bothering me.

the problem is, im afraid if i say anything to her one of 2 things will happen. either it will drive a wedge between us, because shell know im unhappy, or thing will get better, which will always make me wonder if shes feeling it or faking it to make me happy.
that would gnaw at me too. 




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