Alrighty I'm about to have my 5th child.... when I first met my husband he wasn't able to really cum inside of me, at least not easily(I already had 3 kids by this time). We're still experiencing the same issue 2 years later. I believe that I'm loose and of course the only way to know for sure I think is if we tested out other partners which he's not up for, but oddly enough I am because I want to test my thoughts which I believe to be correct. I want our sex life to go wild after I recover after this pregnancy. He has expressed numerous times that it's fine and it's just him, BUT me being a woman I don't know if he's lying or not. Before I came into his life he was addicted to masturbating and porn, from what I've researched this can cause problems in a sexual relationship because of silly fantasies and ect. Personally I used to be addicted to it too and it completely ruined my first experience ever and all throughout that relationship I actually did not care for sex with the guy I was with. Is it possible he's going through the same? I have asked and been open about things with him, but he's always "reassuring." I'd believe him, but my womanly instincts are telling me otherwise or I'm just hella paranoid.

Back to my main question though! How the hell do I go about this loose vagina thing? How do I test without there being a third party involved? What actually helps a loose vagina? Does laser therapy work? 

I bought this cream that apparently helps with tightening the vagina temporarily during sex. Are these creams legit? I'm going to try it with him sometime this week hopefully. :/ Sex has been very meh lately.....

Alrighty I'm about to have my 5th child....

 Sex has been very meh lately.....

1. long term and takes a long time: kegel and pelvic floor exercises.  practice stopping and starting urine stream.
2. instant: powdered alum.  it's cheap and you can get it almost anywhere.  you have to mix it with water so i'd read a few articles online if i were you.  don't use it while you're pregnant.
3.  vaginoplasty.  instant but expensive. obviously this is surgical.  ask your gyn/ob if (s)he can tighten things up.