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December 11, 2018, 12:40:54 PM
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Is sex really required for a healthy and happy relationship?

Do you believe that you're able to have a relationship without sex, or is it to important?

What are your thoughts?

December 12, 2018, 04:08:53 AM
Reply #1


Is sex really required for a healthy and happy relationship?

Do you believe that you're able to have a relationship without sex, or is it to important?

What are your thoughts?
I believe that sex is very important to have a healthy and happy marriage. Sex is not just a physical union but also the union of two hearts and minds. The two has become one flesh and soul.

December 13, 2018, 08:00:24 AM
Reply #2


Sex probably won’t make you more attracted to your partner, but it will most likely make you feel closer as people. Sex is a must for me personally, but it isn’t for all people and it doesn’t have to be. You just do your thing, and find someone who’s compatible with you.

December 15, 2018, 07:12:54 PM
Reply #3


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December 16, 2018, 11:33:44 AM
Reply #4


I believe it is. Sex or making love or whatever you might call it is like telling your partner that I trust you. It's like a bond you do to make your relationship stronger.

December 25, 2018, 05:02:36 AM
Reply #5


Well, I remember there was a book by Pepper Schwartz that had a chapter about this. The woman in the chapter ended up dumping her guy, even though she loved him, and got into a different relationship with a guy better at sex, and said that it was naive of her to believe that "love conquers all" in her 20s. My own personal feelings are it is possible, but that isn't based on any data. I don't know if there isany data on the subject.

January 01, 2019, 05:28:45 PM
Reply #6


Is sex really required for a healthy and happy relationship?

Do you believe that you're able to have a relationship without sex, or is it to important?

What are your thoughts?
Not sex but GOOD ,GREAT sex.That’s a must.But there are also relationships where the sex is great but the rest of things are meh.So there should be a balance between sex and a healthy relationship beforehand.Cus sex isn’t going to solve the problems

January 01, 2019, 05:45:22 PM
Reply #7


I think sex in a relationship is very important.  It creates a bond between the two of you. 

January 08, 2019, 12:48:59 PM
Reply #8


This is a very good question.

I myself have been wondering the same thing, it seems most agree it’s a must.

January 12, 2019, 08:11:43 PM
Reply #9


believe me it's not, but romance is. Romance is really necessary for a relationship

March 17, 2019, 07:52:55 PM
Reply #10


Sex is a Must. Its going to help you to feel closer to that person

March 18, 2019, 02:53:54 PM
Reply #11


Sex is a Must. Its going to help you to feel closer to that person

all depends on the person though @Eva - I think!

you can have a successful relationship without having sex, for sure.

March 19, 2019, 12:43:11 PM
Reply #12


 It is as important as the air that we breathe. Without it we would never be a well-rounded and complete person. The need for sexual fulfillment is part of what makes us  Homo sapiens

March 28, 2019, 03:38:33 PM
Reply #13


Yes, sex is undoubtedly one of the most important parts of a relationship. One has to have a good sexual relationship with his or her partner in order to make the relationship work for a long time. However only sex cannot be the basis on which a relationship will become successful. Love, trust, respect and all such important qualities need to be present in a relationship.

April 02, 2019, 01:58:18 PM
Reply #14


it is a must although it's not the most important thing its definitely at the top of the list

April 03, 2019, 03:24:10 AM
Reply #15


For me, definitely a must. Sex to me goes hand in hand with intimacy and closeness in my romantic relationships. That may or may not be a healthy way of thinking, though, but it's just how I'm programmed.

April 08, 2019, 12:28:05 AM
Reply #16


It is an absolute must... It is the physical side of a loving relationship.

April 21, 2019, 04:24:14 PM
Reply #17


If neither person in the relationship thinks so, it can work, I think.

If one person thinks so and the other doesn't, that can be hard.

April 22, 2019, 03:55:58 AM
Reply #18


Yes, sure. If you ask me to choose 3 months without sex and 3 months without shopping. I will choose the previous one. I will die if without sex.  :D Go to have sex in a new level with the sex doll 8) Find the one in my Dollswish shop.

April 24, 2019, 12:31:22 AM
Reply #19


Intamacy is important. Whether or not that means having sex in whatever relationship youre in is up to you.

May 05, 2019, 06:01:59 PM
Reply #20


Sex is not must but understanding is most important. If you understand each other, the relationship will be safe.

May 08, 2019, 03:54:27 PM
Reply #21


Absolutely...! I don’t know how some of my friends have sexless relationships! I need to be stimulated not only emotionally but physically and being physical can also emotionally stimulate you.

May 11, 2019, 09:01:10 AM
Reply #22


I can only imagine it varies massively with the individual. I believe that, mostly, yes it's a must and, even where everything else is pretty good, I think a bad decline in how the sex is can eat away at a relationship and often over a long period of time so that nobody really notices it is happening. It's funny because I used to believe that the term "making love" was a sales tool by men to get more sex but, actually, I have come to realise how accurate it is. I mean, I don't think it can create something from nothing but it nurtures and builds a different type of bond and affects how we see our partner.

May 12, 2019, 01:47:34 PM
Reply #23


I'm saving myself until I'm ready, and I'd say sex was never a big priority for my relationship. It was discussed when we set boundaries and the whatnot, but one can have a decent relationship without having sex.

May 13, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
Reply #24



I am Divya. Name changed for obvious reasons, so no point to look for me on Facebook.

I am sort of an alpha female in a pack of awesome girls extremely liberated and free spirited in Bandra. Think of us as Mumbai’s own Sex and the city quarter. Minus the fact that we aren’t famous.

We talk on panties, lingerie vulva decoration what spring does to the G-spot and all sorts of things over cocktails often colored like ejaculate. I am the ice breaker. I am in charge on bringing bums and topics to the table.

But the day happened. Three months ago.

One of us brought a vibrator. We giggled like school girls. But I was panting. Not from being over excited down there but out of crying vanity. The alpha female had to take a back seat. I didn’t want to admit that… that… I had never used a sex toy before. Fortunately, that purple curvy thing took all the focus. It earned awe far more than I earned questions.

The very next day I placed an order from IMbesharam.com For my first ever sex toy. A vibrator. I read that package is discreet, no obscene image on the outside, no chance of getting “caught.”

Four days later the bell rang. The mailman handed a package. I quenched my jar but the mailman was oblivious. He had no clue what was the package. I was saved.

The package was light but I carried it with my both hands – like an offering. When I unwrapped and beheld the object inside my vagina pulsated. My very own… vagina… down….. there .. felt a pulse. Like a beating heart.

Am I cheating? Am I a slut? But I don’t have a boyfriend, we broke up a month ago, so how can I be cheating?  And I am not a slut. Shun off, voices of sanskaar!
I am not cheating…. I… I deserve this. I deserve to feel. I won’t tell anyone.

I felt haste. I practically ripped off my underwear. Took a few deep breaths and inserted the object inside me. Didn’t even read the manual. It looked so natural. Like an extension of me. And I pressed the button

Hooooolllyyyyyyyyyyy. What does the other button do? What if I pressed it again. I.. I feel

Spasms of bliss glistened through me. My body condensed around my vulva. And then. And then I touched my G-spot with that beautiful curved end. A micro second of touch and I exploded.

I moaned. Am I supposed to moan like this? Is it in the manual? Am I doing it right? Why didn’t I read the manual. I moaned. I gasped. I pushed it deeper. I looked for different angles. I pressed the button again.

A long string of vibrations passed through me. A long moan. Another spasm. Then third. Finch clenched, feet stabbed inside the mattress. I came abruptly. I leaked down there. It was amazing.


I relaxed. I lied. I wasn’t able to get up. I was suspended. By a sex toy

I was making love with me. I knew my every move and what pleased me. It wasn’t a mood game, I didn’t had to please anyone or ask or wait. I could carry as long as I wanted as much as I wanted regardless of some boy’s endurance level. I discovered avenues. I felt confident. I mapped the dots that lead to my avenue of pleasure.

I am an alpha female again.

I found new joy in controlling my sexual experience and turned evangelical about it.  I told tales to my group, spear the good word on the street as if baptized anew. My smile flashed, I felt in control and I felt happy. Playful and happy.

Off to play some more….

May 13, 2019, 07:13:36 PM
Reply #25


I think it depends on the people involved

May 14, 2019, 07:26:39 PM
Reply #26


 I feel like sex is kinda important in a relationship ..

May 15, 2019, 09:33:46 AM
Reply #27


It's is important. If sex is not there then there is an issue.

May 27, 2019, 12:49:57 PM
Reply #28


I think it is a necessity. In my opinion sex keeps a relationship sustain and flourish.

May 27, 2019, 10:09:26 PM
Reply #29


depends on the person really but you two would have to figure each other out and see whats good for you

May 29, 2019, 12:15:51 PM
Reply #30


Sex is not important in a relationship because if you base your relationship on sex that relationship may not last long.

What happens if the guy gets tired of the girl probably he found someone who is more sexier than his girl friend

May 29, 2019, 06:24:29 PM
Reply #31


Complex, but if i had a partner / wife.  I'd prefer to call it 'making love' and only if both involved wanted to.
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May 31, 2019, 03:20:43 PM
Reply #32


Yes! You need intimacy. Without that you're just friends.


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