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Author Topic: Is it better to be able to feel uninhibited, open and honest sexually w/partner

April 09, 2020, 03:11:41 PM
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My wife and I have gotten to a point where she can tell me exactly what she wants during sex even as far as wanting me to use a penis sleeve or large dildo to make her orgasm.  I have an average size length penis but slightly under average girth. We have always had amazing sex luckily because I consistently hit her G spot due to the shape of my penis. After a long time i was finally able to get her to be more open with me. she finally admitted when she saw my penis the first time we had sex that I was smaller than she prefers. But was shocked at how i was able to get her off so easily. Especially our first time.  It grew from there to the point we talked about her well endowed partners from the past and how they were able to pleasure her in way I am not able to. It wasn’t necessarily better sex just really good in a different way. I asked if she thought our sex could possibly be even better if I was slightly bigger.  Of course she said no at first but eventually told me that it was a definite possibility.  Which in my mind is commons sense that it would but was monumental actually hearing her say it.  So I started wearing a penis sleeve and using bigger dildos occasionally to try and pleasure in a similar way she had with bigger penis in the past. Again at first she said she didn’t like the sleeve. she was afraid it might hurt my feelings but eventually ended up saying she loved it. Instead of being offended I took pleasure in the fact I found more ways to give my wife mind blowing orgasms. This has significantly improved our sex life and intimacy which already seemed to be great.  This actually improved my self esteem because now when my wife complimented me on a job well done it meant more and I knew she was telling the truth.  Problem is now I have gotten so into pleasing my wife that we have started talking about taking another big step by Watching her have sex with another guy that is well endowed. Again in my mind it’s common sense if she likes when I wear a penis sleeve a real penis the same size or bigger would feel even better. If she thinks she would enjoy it and could possibly have amazing orgasms from it wouldn’t really bother me. I get off on seeing her get off regardless of how she gets there. Wonder if anyone has any thoughts or suggestions for my specific situation.  I know doing something like this is not for everyone. One concern I do have is that it might change or affect  her feelings towards me in some way. Guess it would be up to her to decide if that was a risk.

 

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