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Author Topic: I’m sexually frustrated with my lack of orgasms

January 28, 2019, 12:53:36 AM
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Pineapplebasil


Hi. I have been seeing my significant other for over two years. I am deeply in love with him but I am frustrated that he hasn’t given me an orgasm through penetration- like ever. I’ve had them through oral sex but I am frustrated with myself and the situation on why it hasn’t happened yet with the penetration. I feel like at this point it’s never going to happen and that makes me really sad because he is a really good lover in bed. I’ve come so close to orgasming a good number of times but when it’s about to happen it just fades away. I am usually in the moment so it’s not like my mind is wandering too much. My partner is on the smaller side. I thought the size of one’s package was a myth when it came to orgasming. A while ago I had a partner who was larger and I would orgasm on an average of two times during sex.

Should I introduce toys or vibrators? I feel like I want to bring it up to him, but not in a way that will make him feel bad. I also think I should explore myself more because then I will know what I like. Any suggestions at all would be helpful, like how to bring up this conversation. He makes me really happy in our relationship and he has orgasms all the time when we have sex but it’s rare that I have any.

Thank you for listening to my rant.

February 03, 2019, 05:29:10 AM
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skp27


I had this same problem for a while and was able to have an orgasm from penetration alone for the very first time recently!!

Here’s how it happened for me so maybe it’ll work this way for you?

Basically I hadn’t had sex in a while since I was home for the holidays and then had a bachelorette party the week after in my hometown that I stayed for. I didn’t get myself off the entire time I was away and when I came back after Christmas to him I was sooooo horny. We started having sex and he was on top and I think that since I was so sex deprived and sexually frustrated for over a week of no sex I was finally able to have an orgasm from penetration since it felt so good to finally be having sex again. Maybe try edging and waiting until you’re so super horny?

 

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