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Author Topic: I REALLY like her, but she has no sex drive at all. Help!

March 06, 2020, 01:09:33 AM
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MrGeniune


So, I'm a Male in my early 30's and I'm currently in a relationship with a woman.

We've been going out 6 weeks, and we've been spending every spare moment together. She is everything I want in a woman.

But, she has no sex drive, at all. She's made it clear she doesn't masturbate, has never had a orgasm despite attempts, and doesn't feel any need to have sex or get horny. She says she's happy to have sex, for sake of it being good for the relationship and she doesn't want to rob any partner of the experience. But has also told me she could happily go the rest of her days without sex.

I however, have a slightly above average sex drive. I have the need and desire and want to pleasure my woman, it's what I enjoy most about sex, her pleasure, not mine. And no matter how hard I tell myself "She's ok with it", having any form of sex with her still feels one-sided and unfulfilling.

She gets wet and turned on at first for a bit, but it usually passes quickly. I've tried all sorts of masturbation and clit stimulation, and have asked her what she likes, but she literally doesn't know and doesn't care. She just doesn't have a sex drive, at all.

The problem I face, is that as much as I love her company, this is holding me back from 100% committing to the relationship and admitting my love. The thought that I'll be stuck in a relationship with boring non-adventurous sex where I can never pleasure my woman the way I enjoy sexual pleasure.

What do I do?

March 20, 2020, 07:12:55 PM
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arnoldj1


Have you tried foreplay and stuff like this ?

March 20, 2020, 07:20:20 PM
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Baker322


Hey, man. She told you that she had some attempts to achieve an orgasm but she failed.. and also she said that she is ready to have sex with her partner and to not rob the experience from him. I think that what you should do is have sex with her, and give her as much pleasure as you can. If she is going to understand how good it is, she will definitely want more. Just do you best, bro! I believe in you! However, if it doesn't work, talk to her, and if she accepts it - you can try female viagra from https://indegenerique.fr. It's going to raise her libido, and probably, make you both happy! Good luck, dude.
« Last Edit: March 25, 2020, 12:07:48 PM by Baker322 »

March 30, 2020, 05:59:01 PM
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Chloe.kissx


If it’s this early and she’s not sexually excited or anything by you it isn’t going to work sorry

Should be the most excited at the start

You can’t change who a person is and sex is important in a relationship

April 04, 2020, 09:47:42 AM
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July 14, 2020, 01:57:56 AM
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bernier_janet


Feel bad for you. But people are different, so it's not unusual for it to happen. And yeah, maybe some pills would help.

July 14, 2020, 03:19:30 AM
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Kipsley


Hormone levels in a woman can be a driving factor in a woman's sex drive, or lack there of. My advise would be to go and see your GP (as a couple) and ask his professional medical opinion. He may even refer you both to a Marriage Councillor or sexual therapist.

It is important that you talk to your partner about this first.
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July 14, 2020, 04:27:52 AM
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ChickenAttack


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Feel bad for you. But people are different, so it's not unusual for it to happen. And yeah, maybe some pills would help.

Usually pills don't work for females. OP, it can be that she simply is asexual. What does that mean? It means only that you need to accept it if you really love her. On the other hand, making love with someone who actually don't want you can bring your sexual drive down. I know it, because I have a very same situation with my new GF. I use this https://www.imedix.com/drugs/cenforce stuff to get hard. Also I have slightly sexual issues, and this is the second reason I use these pills.
« Last Edit: July 15, 2020, 03:32:40 AM by ChickenAttack »

July 14, 2020, 08:52:58 PM
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Bennett


So, I'm a Male in my early 30's and I'm currently in a relationship with a woman.

We've been going out 6 weeks, and we've been spending every spare moment together. She is everything I want in a woman.

But, she has no sex drive, at all. She's made it clear she doesn't masturbate, has never had a orgasm despite attempts, and doesn't feel any need to have sex or get horny. She says she's happy to have sex, for sake of it being good for the relationship and she doesn't want to rob any partner of the experience. But has also told me she could happily go the rest of her days without sex.

I however, have a slightly above average sex drive. I have the need and desire and want to pleasure my woman, it's what I enjoy most about sex, her pleasure, not mine. And no matter how hard I tell myself "She's ok with it", having any form of sex with her still feels one-sided and unfulfilling.

She gets wet and turned on at first for a bit, but it usually passes quickly. I've tried all sorts of masturbation and clit stimulation, and have asked her what she likes, but she literally doesn't know and doesn't care. She just doesn't have a sex drive, at all.

The problem I face, is that as much as I love her company, this is holding me back from 100% committing to the relationship and admitting my love. The thought that I'll be stuck in a relationship with boring non-adventurous sex where I can never pleasure my woman the way I enjoy sexual pleasure.

What do I do?

Others have spoken well on this issue. But I will recommend this video for you and your wife to watch. Cos it helps a lot. You can click or copy the link to another tab in your browser. Am sure, it will be the perfect solution for you..

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