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Author Topic: I haven't been able to get myself in the mood for...reasons

October 03, 2019, 05:01:57 AM
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maxine_princess


So like, my sex drive has been kinda high these past few days for some reason. I don't know why. I've never had sex or done really anything sexual before, so it's really just a matter of me wanting to masturbate. But for some reason, I haven't been able to get myself in the mood??? Porn just feels boring to me, no sexting is working, idk what to do! I think it's because I've been craving the real thing, so masturbation isn't cutting it? I don't know. I've never felt this way. I have no idea what to do or how to solve this, honestly. I don't know what I'm expecting from this, but can someone please help me..? Like, advice or something?? I just need to know how to solve this issue. This post definitely isn't worded properly, so I'm really hoping someone understands what I mean;;;

(Sorry for rambling)

October 05, 2019, 03:50:58 AM
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loneblutbad


I understand your situation. My husband almost never has sex with me and I think he doesn't even masturbate and I am not sure if he gets horny or not but he seems to not be in the mood most of the time. It might be a physical issue, a health problem but it might also be that masturbating is not giving you the needed arousal. Can you describe what happens when you start masturbating? What stops you? Are you F or M?

October 06, 2019, 09:14:12 AM
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Slowvehicle


Consider treating yourself as a seduction to be achieved, not as a sure thing.  Take yourself out to dinner and a movie wearing, fun, sexy clothes.  Consider erotica instead of porn.  Consider foreplay (yes, even  masturbation deserves foreplay).  Consider talking with a friend, or even wanking with a friend you trust.  Don't get frustrated; wait until it is fun again...

 

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