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January 10, 2019, 11:19:43 PM
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goodevening


Hi all,

I am currently in the process of doing an sex education course at my college, some may think its weird but whatever, lol.

We're encouraged to speak to others about sex and to get their opinions on how important sex is in a relationship.

So .. my question for you all is: how important is sex in a relationship?

Does the frequency increase happiness? The likelihood of the relationship succeeding? Interested to hear your thoughts!

January 14, 2019, 05:22:45 PM
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missg


Hi all,

I am currently in the process of doing an sex education course at my college, some may think its weird but whatever, lol.

We're encouraged to speak to others about sex and to get their opinions on how important sex is in a relationship.

So .. my question for you all is: how important is sex in a relationship?

Does the frequency increase happiness? The likelihood of the relationship succeeding? Interested to hear your thoughts!

My answer: VERY IMPORTANT!

But it all depends on the people in the relationship, it may be a requirement to some as they like to be sexually satisfied (aka. me), though other women tend to not enjoy sex as much.

June 05, 2019, 05:33:54 AM
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Becky1987


Very important! In my opinion, no sex in a relationship is eventually going to get boring and someone will eventually find it elsewhere

June 05, 2019, 08:54:31 AM
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Londongal91


I dont think sex is the most important thing, but I’m in quite a low sexual relationship right now but it’s been the best relationship of my life, it depends on the people

June 05, 2019, 01:00:16 PM
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Chronos


Very important! Sex is one of main things that keeps the relationship healthy, you shouldn't avoid it

June 06, 2019, 01:21:53 PM
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Love to brew


It is very important, as it creates a very important bond.
Feeling comfortable to be completely trusting and vulnerable around each other is a massive thing in my eyes.

June 06, 2019, 11:10:05 PM
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PersonalizedFantasys


It really depends on the couple, and the relationship.
Some people are perfectly happy with a low sex relationship and still express there love in other ways and have a good solid relationship.

June 18, 2019, 01:07:19 PM
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Rothergirl


I was married for 10 years with very little sex my husband had medical issues I stood by him and he went off with someone else.  I'm now in a very happy relationship where sex is a massive part of us..... personally I think from experience it is very important

June 19, 2019, 04:32:39 PM
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Fr8train


Hi all I’m new here and feel like sex is very important in a relationship. My issue is I’ve been with my wife 22 years married for 19. We are both in our 40’s and have a teenage daughter. An underlying issue that I have had is my wife is the 4th women I’ve been with sexually, she’s been with 20 that I know of and believe more but she says she don’t know an exact number and doesn’t want to talk about it. Which I have some retroactive jealousy toward. With that being said we have sex about once a week. And on her part it’s usually forced like let’s do it and get it over with. Which drives me nuts! She will never initiate sex ever! And when we do have sex there is absolutely no oral anymore either way and I’m more than willing, she will just lay there not make a sound or even move a muscle! Than roll over like nothing and go to sleep. After that I’m more frustrated than I was before I got any.I don’t want to sound like I’m bragging but we both work full time her job is more stress than mine I understand that. I will do housework, cook dinner, wash clothes and run errands while she does her take home work. I have no issue with this I like to eat and have clean clothes and a clean house and it’s both of our responsibility to do this. I’m affectionate I will give her a back rub almost every morning before work and sometimes at night. To get her to hold my hand give a hug or a kiss is pulling teeth! And I do know she loves me. But it kills your self esteem when you get rejected constantly! Than she gets mad because I bring up that she has had so many lovers before me that now sex isn’t special, it doesn’t mean anything to her. She says no it’s just she has things on her mind and she’s tired and sex isn’t as important “been there done that” she says. I’m frustrated and don’t know what to do, I’m a young guy very much into sex not the type to cheat, don’t need crazy sex everyday 3 times a day. But twice a week with some passion would mean a great deal. Am I being selfish? Should her past really bother me?

June 21, 2019, 11:37:10 AM
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stacyw04


Love getting a hard spanking and being fingered and fucked roughly Also love older guys and daddy. Love anything nasty and really rough
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