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January 10, 2019, 06:19:43 PM
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goodevening


Hi all,

I am currently in the process of doing an sex education course at my college, some may think its weird but whatever, lol.

We're encouraged to speak to others about sex and to get their opinions on how important sex is in a relationship.

So .. my question for you all is: how important is sex in a relationship?

Does the frequency increase happiness? The likelihood of the relationship succeeding? Interested to hear your thoughts!

January 14, 2019, 12:22:45 PM
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missg


Hi all,

I am currently in the process of doing an sex education course at my college, some may think its weird but whatever, lol.

We're encouraged to speak to others about sex and to get their opinions on how important sex is in a relationship.

So .. my question for you all is: how important is sex in a relationship?

Does the frequency increase happiness? The likelihood of the relationship succeeding? Interested to hear your thoughts!

My answer: VERY IMPORTANT!

But it all depends on the people in the relationship, it may be a requirement to some as they like to be sexually satisfied (aka. me), though other women tend to not enjoy sex as much.

June 05, 2019, 12:33:54 AM
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Becky1987


Very important! In my opinion, no sex in a relationship is eventually going to get boring and someone will eventually find it elsewhere

June 05, 2019, 03:54:31 AM
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Londongal91


I dont think sex is the most important thing, but I’m in quite a low sexual relationship right now but it’s been the best relationship of my life, it depends on the people

June 05, 2019, 08:00:16 AM
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Chronos


Very important! Sex is one of main things that keeps the relationship healthy, you shouldn't avoid it

June 06, 2019, 08:21:53 AM
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Love to brew


It is very important, as it creates a very important bond.
Feeling comfortable to be completely trusting and vulnerable around each other is a massive thing in my eyes.

June 18, 2019, 08:07:19 AM
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Rothergirl


I was married for 10 years with very little sex my husband had medical issues I stood by him and he went off with someone else.  I'm now in a very happy relationship where sex is a massive part of us..... personally I think from experience it is very important

June 19, 2019, 11:32:39 AM
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Fr8train


Hi all I’m new here and feel like sex is very important in a relationship. My issue is I’ve been with my wife 22 years married for 19. We are both in our 40’s and have a teenage daughter. An underlying issue that I have had is my wife is the 4th women I’ve been with sexually, she’s been with 20 that I know of and believe more but she says she don’t know an exact number and doesn’t want to talk about it. Which I have some retroactive jealousy toward. With that being said we have sex about once a week. And on her part it’s usually forced like let’s do it and get it over with. Which drives me nuts! She will never initiate sex ever! And when we do have sex there is absolutely no oral anymore either way and I’m more than willing, she will just lay there not make a sound or even move a muscle! Than roll over like nothing and go to sleep. After that I’m more frustrated than I was before I got any.I don’t want to sound like I’m bragging but we both work full time her job is more stress than mine I understand that. I will do housework, cook dinner, wash clothes and run errands while she does her take home work. I have no issue with this I like to eat and have clean clothes and a clean house and it’s both of our responsibility to do this. I’m affectionate I will give her a back rub almost every morning before work and sometimes at night. To get her to hold my hand give a hug or a kiss is pulling teeth! And I do know she loves me. But it kills your self esteem when you get rejected constantly! Than she gets mad because I bring up that she has had so many lovers before me that now sex isn’t special, it doesn’t mean anything to her. She says no it’s just she has things on her mind and she’s tired and sex isn’t as important “been there done that” she says. I’m frustrated and don’t know what to do, I’m a young guy very much into sex not the type to cheat, don’t need crazy sex everyday 3 times a day. But twice a week with some passion would mean a great deal. Am I being selfish? Should her past really bother me?

August 05, 2019, 09:47:03 AM
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August 05, 2019, 04:03:54 PM
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USNAVYVET


Quite honestly  sex is very important .

With that being said  I  had relations with over 87 women and all but three (3) were married

Unfortunately all the women said basically the same thing

1- They missed the closeness

2- Their husbands due to medical issues cannot perform

3-  "toys" just do not do it for them 

4- They wanted to prove they they are still desirable

5- They wanted to get even for an affair the husband had





August 13, 2019, 06:27:30 AM
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August 13, 2019, 08:07:46 AM
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Bartolo


Sex is very important, you need to understand that the relationship is not important in what way you got - and with the help of online dating and real meetings you need to be nourished by something - love and sex. This is a very important point, I advise you not to forget.
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August 14, 2019, 11:51:59 PM
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August 18, 2019, 03:12:45 PM
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Husbandwithissues


Sex is important for sure. My wife and I have very different needs for sex and it can be very frustrating at times, for both of us of course.

August 19, 2019, 06:51:14 PM
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vexcoda


I think the simple answer is, yes, sex is important in a relationship.

However, I think there are myriad types of relationships, some are very dependent on sex for happiness, but I also think that people can have happy relationships with their spouse or partner where sex is is less important, or less frequent - but in this I would say sex is still important and they may find sexual gratification some other way or elsewhere.
The importance of sex is also probably a spectrum and can be dependent on many factors such as age of person or relationship, the stage of life or situation, wealth, security.

My personal opinion on this that there is not easy answer to arrive at because everybody's lives and relationships are so different and the importance of sex so varied that you could only ever broadly categorise these things.

August 30, 2019, 08:00:26 AM
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September 24, 2019, 10:55:09 PM
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My husband and I have been married for five years, and thankfully, our sex life is great. We met at a stressful time in both of our professional and personal lives, and the sex initially was a wonderful release for us. Our relationship matured and developed, we fell in love and were soon married. We have sex five to six days per week, and usually at least once in the morning and once in the evening. He travels for work, so pretty much the only time we aren't having sex is when we're not sleeping in the same bed. I am blessed that his sex drive matches mine and is always ready to please me first and foremost. I am also fortunate that I tend to orgasm fairly easily, so I come at least two to three times every time we have sex, which keeps this lady very happy and satisfied. I hope I answered all of the questions and was helpful for your class.

September 27, 2019, 01:59:16 AM
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skiya


This is my three points of view:
1. The basis of love is the physiological need, the instinct of catharsis. I very much agree with my social psychology teacher's point of view when I was in college. I asked her what marriage means to her. She said: sex.

2. Love is composed of two parts, part is the feeling, part is the desire, that is, love and sex. The deep feeling is the soul pillar of love, and the beautiful sex is the small "dessert" in love. Sometimes, there is no sex between two people or can live happily together, but if there is only sex in life, there is no feeling, it is difficult to stay together for a long time.

3. When a love arises, there must be love and sex. No sex, only love is hard to maintain. Only sex without love can not last long. I think that in a true love, sex and love cannot be divided. Only the integration of sex and love can achieve family happiness and marital happiness.
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October 12, 2019, 06:33:24 AM
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DearRide


Very important in my opinion. Sure it depends from couple to couple, but I feel that physical intimacy is as important as emotional one.

October 14, 2019, 08:14:00 AM
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joanwhiteney


Hi all,

I am currently in the process of doing an sex education course at my college, some may think its weird but whatever, lol.

We're encouraged to speak to others about sex and to get their opinions on how important sex is in a relationship.

So .. my question for you all is: how important is sex in a relationship?

Does the frequency increase happiness? The likelihood of the relationship succeeding? Interested to hear your thoughts!

The importance of sex in a relationship is dependent on the individuals involved and how they view sex. Some don't actually start up a relationship to have sex, but to share ideas and build up something good together.
I believe in the power that love gives, live and let live, let love lead.
I spend most of my time sharing helpful relationship tips on Relationshiphub. com.
Feel free to check it out. Thanks :)

October 15, 2019, 08:50:22 AM
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October 16, 2019, 02:23:42 PM
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October 21, 2019, 09:06:19 AM
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I think it is very important. A relationship without sex to me would get very boring and I can honestly say that sex can do miracles for the body and mind and it can keeps things interesting between two people

October 23, 2019, 07:51:50 AM
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October 24, 2019, 01:35:13 AM
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Sabyasachi


Hi bro!
Sex plays a very important part in a healthy relationship. But its not the most important thing. The most important thing in a relationship is trust, enjoying each other's company and trying to understand the perspective of your partner. Don't try to force your decesions on your partner.understand her. And when both of you are ready you'll know that now it's time to have sex.
Bcoz, sex is good but its amazing when you do it with the girl you love; trust me!  :)
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October 24, 2019, 03:26:54 AM
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October 27, 2019, 12:51:54 PM
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fylo


Hi all, am new here, hope to share and learn from one another.

I believe sex is very important, but it should not be the only thing holding a relationship together. Sex boosts your physical interactions and intimacy with your partners, which in turn actually gets you a lot closer to your partner both physically and mentally.

Without sex, life goes on. With sex, life gets better.


November 05, 2019, 08:50:15 AM
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Captain Black


IMO .Sex in a relationship is important but can become less important over time  Its more important in the early days as otherwise how would you start a family?!. As you get older intimacy sex becomes the icing on the cake and intimacy takes over in importance . The latter part is particularly important where one of the partners has an illness or disability preventing sex later in life.

November 14, 2019, 06:06:26 AM
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Udubundu


I had a sexless relationship once, it didn’t go well to say the least.

November 16, 2019, 02:25:07 AM
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charduhan


Man all the span on here is very disconcerting.

To answer your question.  it's different for everyone.   

Im sure someone has already said this. but each relationship dynamic is different.

But we are built to pro create so it is a key part of the relationship.  if you are not having it there may be something fundamentally wrong.

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November 29, 2019, 06:11:20 AM
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December 11, 2019, 04:26:42 PM
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Personally for me it's very important. I'd go crazy without a sexual relationship. Thankfully me and my husband are both fairly sexually active.

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January 02, 2020, 07:06:24 PM
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I’ve only had one sexually active relationship
I’m 28 lost my virginity nine months ago

So I may lack experience
But from this one experience I feel that sex ‏ ‏absolutely elevated our relationship

After we had sex we became more intimate we started having more romantic nights that were sometimes sex free and we enjoy a far deeper connection than we did before
 
Sex just made us closer more comfortable and far deeper in love then we ever were
 

 

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