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Author Topic: Help, I'm 24 and... :'(

November 27, 2019, 04:50:34 PM
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Hi everyone,

So I'm a man and I'm 24 years old and I want to share something with you all, something I don't really feel comfortable sharing but at the same time I really want to discuss about the problems I'm having so I hope to get some honest feedbacks from you guys.

So as I said I'm 24 years old and I... never had sex  :-[ I really feel ashamed about it. I also never had a girlfriend  :'(

This is an issue I'm having in my life currently, and I feel like I'm not confident enough to actually get a girlfriend... well actually I don't really know... I'm someone who is not scared, in the sense where I actually dear to go talk to a girl (at least this is the feeling I have), but I just don't do it at that moment and I really feel guilty about myself because I KNOW I could do it, but I just don't do it and I don't know why. I feel like there is something that is preventing me, but I don't really know what it is.

Another thing I feel really guilty about myself is that I still... M... M... M... Masturbate  :-[

I feel like killing myself, it's like a habit, instead of going out and trying to get the real thing I just end up masturbating the whole time and I'm really pissed about myself I'm angry about this and I just can't seem to get off of it. Sometimes I feel like I really need help, there really must be something wrong with me  :'(

I'm really feeling guilty about all of this, I feel like I'm the only one in the world who never has had sex at this age  :-[

I wanted to share this complexity with you guys and I would like to know what you think about all this and what you think I should do to overcome this situation?

Lately I've been thinking of going to some kind of escort girl, but I feel like this is not going to help me, it will make things worse and I would feel like a total loser. I feel like this will only make me feel more guilty about myself.

I'm kind of lost, I have no support whatsoever, I have very few friends, who they are religious and are telling me not to commit sin and blah blah blah... It's this kind of bullshit that also played a role in my current situation I feel. Maybe I should start by making less religious friends?  :-\

Anyways I hope you guys could give me some advice on this matter.

God bless you, and thank you.

November 28, 2019, 05:02:42 AM
Reply #1

Captain Black

Masturbation- Normal for both sexes even when in relationships. Nothing to feel guilty about .Check out a typical sex toy website and that will confirm . Many sex toys are for this purpose .

You'll be surprised at the number of virgins out there and many even older than yourself .When you find a partner it will be a good idea to tell her , so she can guide you assuming of course she will be more experienced. Some will find it a privilege in taking your virginity .

Getting experience from an Escort isn't that unusual. If its something you can do then go for it .

To gain confidence you perhaps need to socialise more . Go our with friends or if you have a hobby, join a similar interest club.

Once you have got your confidence you will find it easier in obtaining a partner either by a dating Website or the more traditional way of meeting someone whilst out .

December 31, 2019, 05:35:39 PM
Reply #2


hi dude! hey, no problem, that's ok. i'm lucky to have started having sex at 18 (i'm 23 now). always playing it safe from the start but really enjoying it.
you just got to find the right person, that's all. i'm pretty open about sex but also very respectful of other people's views and beliefs. i also have my qualms... but sex is something that feels so good it's kinda hard to give it up. i wanna give in to sex than give up on sex, haha!!

are you straight, bisexual or gay? i thought i was straight but i'm more a bisexual gay, i guess. i like having condom sex with my gf but really enjoy having condom sex with my hot buddy. he's 23 like me. and we like to have sex in our slimifit blue jeans. and we have edging sex to last long. that is so hot! we're healthy and clean but we use condoms so that we won't fuck up our jeans when we finally cum, haha!!

anyway, hope all the best for you whatever you do. have fun, dude. see ya around here!