Hello, I'm just (hopefully) looking for some advice for my situation. My wife and I have been together for 24 years, since our early teens. I'm now 37, she's 38. I have Muscular Dystrophy and she has a brittle bone disease, we live a state apart, we can't legally live together or marry, because we'd lose our medical benefits.

Everything we do is virtual except for our rare visits. We'd been having sex (online and in person) for years. By sex I mean mutual masturbation, because sex is physically impossible. Last year she told me she doesn't enjoy sex and never did (in general, not just with me).

So we stopped because it didn't feel right continuing you know? The problem is I have a very high sex drive and masturbation doesn't work when she's not involved. I have tried and I can't stay erect no orgasm. I've tried toys and porn and nothing works.

So here I am hoping for some advice. Thanks.