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Author Topic: Anti-climax

February 09, 2020, 07:37:21 PM
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So over the last few months my husband has been loosing his ejaculation. We will be having sex and he'll get to the point of climax and then he won't be able to cum. He doesn't loose his erection, he stays hard but just can't cum. Quite often he complains of becoming too hot during sex and he does become very red and sweaty. He states that he overheats and thats the reason why he cant cum but it's only started happening over the last few months and I can tell it bothers him. Does anyone have any advice as to why this is happening and what I can do to help?         

February 10, 2020, 12:43:49 PM
Reply #1


It might be stress, he needs to be relaxed in order to be able to cum

February 21, 2020, 10:50:43 AM
Reply #2


If it is stress related which I think it is, you need to relax him first while ease him into sex.

What I like to propose to my husband when he is tired, is a body massage. What I do is put relaxing music on , ask him to remove his top and lay down into the bed in his belly. I then massage his back gently with some oil using my hands (you can watch videos on how to do it), I massage his back, his arms, his neck, his head. When I feel He is relaxed, I remove his pants and massage his legs and feet. Then I undress myself without him knowing and sit on his but.

I proceed with the massaging his back again with my hands but this time I use at the same time my sex and lower part to“ride” him. I use my breast and press then in his back. Then I massage his butcheeks with my hands. Usually he is erect at this point, and there you have it a relaxed ready for sex man :)

Hope this helps

You can watch some body massage video to give you ideas but I would say that porn is always too violent and to start by a regular massage is better. The trick then is to emulate sex with your movements and massages in every inch of his body.


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