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July 13, 2019, 02:05:10 AM
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So me and my boyfriend just tried anal tonight. Now... Before I start, I have had anal before and I really enjoy it, however I haven't had anal in 6 years.. So to say the least my bum hasn't had action in a while.... and (since I didn't see) I think he was 1/3 to halfway in and I had to stop him. It was painful. So I had him stay in place for a moment, we only used spit for lube which, I know, wasn't the best call... But.. that's how it happened. I know it's been years since I've done it, but before when I did, I never had pain... And it's not like he's "too big" either. That's not it at all.. I just think I'm "out of practice" and or need massive amounts of lube and or "training". I miss it and I don't want to injure myself getting back into it. Does anyone have any suggestions? I know I was pretty forward but it's how it is and I feel like telling it this way will help get the best advice for me. Thank you all in advance(:

July 30, 2019, 10:51:40 AM
Reply #1


Lots of lube, start with fingers, stay relaxed, maybe start with and in a hot shower.

September 30, 2019, 06:23:34 PM
Reply #2

Confused giraffe

Ah I love how straight forward you were with this!

Plenty of lube and then plenty more. . . .oh and then some more lol. . Just whilst you're getting used to it again,

Erm. . .sometimes clit play can relax your body in a way that it makes it easier to slide in.

Finger,then two ,then a butt plug or something to pre loosen. . .

And good old pushing like you're about to poop (but don't  push hard) which makes its easier to slide it. . . Also position is everything. .  ,

October 02, 2019, 11:05:43 PM
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October 06, 2019, 09:07:59 AM
Reply #4


1. Relax.

2. LOTS of good lube.

3. LOTS of foreplay and patient preparation...if your partner is adventurous. do for them exactly what they re doing for you. That helps with the whole "slow, and gentle" process.

4. Agree to bail out and try again another day is it is not working for any reason.

Good luck, and enjoy!

October 07, 2019, 09:13:22 AM
Reply #5


We do better without lube.  We joke and call it Red Wine and Anal because when she drinks red wine it always seems to happen.  HAHA  We've found lots of foreplay and she loves when I give her oral to that area and get her warmed up.  We've found that toys and fingers prior don't help at all.  We've tried it with lots of lube and also spit and for whatever reason spit works better for us.  We've had nights though where it just wouldn't work and nights it was pretty easy.  I think it is hit or miss at some points.

October 16, 2019, 02:27:11 PM
Reply #6


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November 01, 2019, 03:51:55 PM
Reply #7


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A few other side effects are possible with anal sex. These include:

Spreading STIs. Infections and diseases that are shared during sexual intercourse — such as HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and herpes — can be shared through anal sex. In fact, anal sex is the riskiestTrusted Source sexual behavior for transmitting and getting HIV for both men and women. People on the receiving end (or “the bottom”) of anal sex are 13 timesTrusted Source more likely to become infected with HIV than the inserting partner (or “the top”).
Hemorrhoids. Stretching and pushing from anal sex can irritate existing hemorrhoids, but it’s unlikely to cause the dilated and stretched blood vessels inside the rectum and anus.
Colon perforation. This is very uncommon, but it’s possible that anal penetration can puncture a hole in your colon. Surgical repair is necessary, so if you experience heavy rectal bleeding and abdominal pain following anal sex, see your doctor.
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November 04, 2019, 01:40:46 PM
Reply #8


Hi there! So your first issue is using spit for lube. As a guy who loves anal I can tell you from experience that spit just doesn't work as lube. The best lube for personal is silicone and for toys it's water based. Start off slow with fingers and then work up to full penetration. Anal sex is something that cannot be rushed. You have to be fully relaxed and be able to take at least 3 fingers before you can take his member.

January 02, 2020, 01:35:05 PM
Reply #9


What is butt sex?

Most ordinarily, individuals consider anal sex as when a man's penis enters the rear-end. Be that as it may, it may likewise mean utilizing fingers or sex toys to infiltrate the rear-end, or utilizing the tongue to animate the butt (called 'rimming'). You can peruse progressively about oral-anal sex on our 'How to have oral sex' page.

Anybody can appreciate anal sex, regardless of whether they are a man, lady, gay, swinger or straight, and whether they are giving or accepting it. Numerous gay men appreciate penetrative anal sex. Yet, being gay doesn't mean you must have butt-centric sex – you choose what you appreciate!

How would you have butt sex?

It can feel abnormal when you start investigating the anal region during sex, so start gradually with contacting and touching to become accustomed to the thought. In the event that you don't care for it, it's a smart thought to converse with your accomplice and clarify that butt-centric sex isn't for you. While heaps of individuals appreciate it, numerous others would like to let it well enough alone for their sexual exercises.

On the off chance that you choose to have penetrative anal sex, take things gradually and speak with your accomplice. In the event that you are giving anal sex, use a lot of grease and afterward start by entering only a little and afterward hauling out totally. At the point when your accomplice is prepared, enter somewhat further and afterward haul out once more. Proceed with this until you are completely in – yet be set up to stop whenever if the other individual is awkward or in torment.

anal sex can feel invigorating and pleasurable for both the individual giving and getting - yet it can likewise require a significant stretch of time to become acclimated to its impression. In the event that it doesn't go superbly the first occasion when you can generally attempt again when you're both in the disposition. Recollect that you can respite or stop anytime you need. Because you have begun something doesn't mean you have to proceed – halting is in reality ordinary.

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January 03, 2020, 10:04:20 AM
Reply #10


Anal sex doesn't need to be painful and/or scary, it's actually pretty easy to get into it and is rather pleasurable, forget fingers, fingers have nails and scratching the insides is a really bad idea what you need if it is your first time get a special anal lube when me and my missy decided to give it a try I done quite a bit of a research on the subject so best thing is to start with an anal lube preferably the one that will numb your feelings a bit like this one for example Relax It Numb Your Bum Before You Succumb Lubricant 500 Ml

Then get a starter kit butt plugs something along the lines of these: Essence Anal Training Set
, I bought a similar set for the missis, so we started with the smallest one just to get her used to it and eventually we progressed to the biggest one, this did not happen on the first attempt it in fact took a few days and she'd just walk around with one of those for a few hours, and probably the most important part is personal hygene! So after trying quite few different enema types we've settled on one of these Pump Action Enema Bottle With Nozzle, but please do your research before using one them things or try some other types of enemas, cleaning before insertion is a must! Also it's a good idea not to eat anything for quite a few hours before the play. As for all infections etc, condoms are a must during the anal sex doesn't matter if it's your only partner or not, it is just a must! and Lubricate everything every few minutes, lubricants tend to be absorbed if you are wearing a butt plug so every so often add lube!

Alse stimulating other parts of your body during the anal intercource is a great idea, not only it will give you extra pleasure it will eventually teach your brain to associate the pleasure, and you will want it more an more
« Last Edit: January 03, 2020, 10:39:55 AM by drfraser »

January 09, 2020, 04:40:27 AM
Reply #11


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« Last Edit: January 09, 2020, 05:00:27 AM by johnsonlucas922 »

February 20, 2020, 03:34:49 AM
Reply #12


Thank you all so much for the advice, I haven’t been on here in a while(lost my login😅) but thank you! All the suggestions have been helpful! I will try some things and figure it out(: although now I’m single so hey, no biggie(:

June 02, 2020, 03:01:08 AM
Reply #13


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June 03, 2020, 02:49:31 PM
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