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August 09, 2019, 04:47:13 PM
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Littleshygirl


Hello I'm a 22 year old female student that's very confused over the way iv been thinking and acting. I really have no one to ask or talk about this. I dont need a hookup lol but this just seems like a logical place to ask questions of this sort. Maby get some opinions or advice or even guidance.
  Ok I guess I have to put it out there. I have noticed my sexual fantasies have been changing to very much darker places. Also some of the things I do or the way I act. It's been slow but gradual. One of those things you dont really realize until something happens that makes you realize it.
   Now I noticed I'm watching very hardcore porn and hentai subjects that I know I probably shouldn't and in short I loose myself in the fantasies of it.
  Here is the deal though. Normally I'm very reserved for the most part. I'm not a slut lol but I'm not a nun either. But a normal sexual encounter just doesn't work for me anymore.
Well that's enough for now. If anyone wants to give me their insight or guidance I would love to hear from you. I'm just woundering if the pressure from work and school is making me crack up and what I should do about it.
Thanks

August 16, 2019, 06:25:26 AM
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puniversity101


Why your mind is taking you to dark places because of the hardcore porn itself, it just doesn't get you off anymore. You need to quit that first and foremost. Nothing wrong with being sexual or a sex freak, but once you start talking about weird ass fetishes etc, you need to go back to the drawing board and re-evaluate and situation.
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September 10, 2019, 02:56:12 PM
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Ronny


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September 11, 2019, 06:39:28 PM
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Senecasky


Hardcore p*** has been known to rewire your brain. Kind of like a drug, you don't get that same fix so you need something a little more extreme. That's why some of the darker stuff becomes necessary to get you off. What you really need to do is go cold turkey on the p***, I would say for about 6 months. This should help reset things. This happened to me. I just stopped and after a few months I was able to start fantasizing about more "normal" stuff and it worked. Nothing wrong with you, it's just the p***. :)

October 02, 2019, 04:48:41 AM
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efh4401


Hi! I get where you're coming from. Up until a few weeks ago I was very reserved when it came to having sex and had a few fantasies but nothing extreme. One night my boyfriend and I were doing it and I had asked him if he would be rough with me and ever since that night I can't get enough of it. Sex without the roughness isn't the same. To me it is like a thrill. I feel like it is okay as long as you don't go too far where you seriously hurt yourself or another.

 

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