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Author Topic: A sexual agreement

February 20, 2020, 10:32:32 PM
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AlexxA


Hoping for non-judgmental. I'm sleeping with a guy from my work. He pursued me at work. He's married. His wife stopped sleeping with him when she was pregnant.  He supported her, but after their baby, months turned to over a year and she pretty much has no sex drive and never wants to sleep with him again and told him that. Told him he could find someone else on the side to fulfill his needs but they want to stay married for their child.

I was okay with just sex. Not looking for anything serious currently and I'm single. We have lots of attraction.

Its been fun, but I've never had a situation like this before and don't know how to navigate. I thought we'd be having lots of sex every week. So far, its once a week. He spends weekends with the family. I'm sexual and horny and I really want more sex. I thought that's what this would be. But I don't want to seem clingy or irresponsible because we are busy professionals. I feel like I never tell him what I'm really thinking. I'm fearful he'll get turned off thinking I'm too needy.

I feel like I'm always waiting on him and he's calling the shots with plans. He'll send me flirty texts about him thinking about what he'd like to do to me. Its fun,. I participate. I'm afraid to be too forward and appear too into him and clingy. Tonight he came over. He told me to be waiting in bed naked. I did it. He ate me out and then we had sex. I didn't initiate going down on him. Maybe he's upset about it? I'm kind of shy so wait for a guy to tell me. I feel like maybe he wants me to be more assertive and I'm not. He's older and more experienced. I'm younger and more self conscious. We then cuddle naked chatting after sex. I love the chatting. But again, I'm all googly eyed from sex. He asks me really good questions and I feel like I don't. I want to be his dream woman and I feel like I'm not confident enough.

February 20, 2020, 10:41:03 PM
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AlexxA


He also keeps asking me about my period and fertility.  I'm on the pill. Take it religiously.

He knows this. He now asks when my fertile time is so he's more careful.  I don't know when that is. I only get my period for a couple days a month.

March 06, 2020, 11:20:25 AM
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dudej970


im pretty sure he wont find u too needy! you asking him for sex will drive him crazy! just be more open!

 

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