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Author Topic: Why he broke it off

March 01, 2020, 03:01:31 AM
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I was in a relationship with a guy who was 18. I was 22. When he had first asked me about a relationship I thought perhaps he was too young. Now I think he was immature. I thought he was a good person but the way he ended things was heartbreaking.  At the beginning of the relationship he was saying how he wanted this to last and we did have a connection. He would express how it felt like we were soulmates and it was always a lot of fun when we would do things together and see each other every day. Then one day after one of our hangout times it was the last time I saw him again. We went out for Ice cream and then went home. After that when I texted him he barely responded and then one day when I asked if we could talk he texted back no that's it. The next day he sent a long text that we should break up. He said he was crying as he wrote this. It all seems ridiculous to disappear and then send long texts like that. I didn't see issues in the relationship and then suddenly that. I haven't seen him since. I messaged him very rarely after that in order to give him space, but most recently when we messaged he said he was worried to message me because I would think we would start dating again, and he said he wants to be friends. He said if that's what I thought would happen it's not. He said he doesn't want me to believe anything will happen again. It's a very different person than who I was with before. He said he wasn't attracted anymore, he doesn't know why. He said he used to love me and didn't know what changed. Also he has bipolar. He seems uncaring now. After that he blocked me on social media. I'm trying to understand, it's all quite odd how he suddenly disappeared.

April 11, 2020, 11:07:20 PM
Reply #1


That’s really nice of you to come in here and ask for advice on your caring and willingness to get him back to you...

Give this guy some time and wait to see how things go most of all do not rush things cause as we get older we most likely get more sensitive in situations like this...

Give it some time and check up on him in the future...

May 01, 2020, 02:23:49 AM
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May 09, 2020, 12:59:35 AM
Reply #3


He needs his space as you can tell that he doesn’t really respond with long talk.

Every now and then people may think out of no where so giving them space to let them figure it out could be such of a help.

Always be positive

If you’re looking for what I would say about the situation I feel as if your boyfriend has been thinking of a lot of stuff lately and he may feel as if his emotional encounter could be something that he feels deep down. It could be a negative state as we could see so being patient with him is key.

May 09, 2020, 08:43:09 AM
Reply #4


You have a thoughtful personality. He is lucky to have you. Give him space for now, he may be self-batling about anything. Whenever he reached out, be a friend to him -- make him feel like he is welcome and if the connection is attached ask how is he doing. Well, i dont know if it works, can you update us for any improvements. :) 
A queen needs a king not an empire.

May 11, 2020, 11:43:41 AM
Reply #5


So it seems like you guys are young and it takes time to mature. Give your self some time women tend to mature faster than men it could be why you have a crush for him, but there's also life our everyday things to do that take up our time. Love your self and this is something I was always told when I shared my story to someone, "when you love yourself nothing else matters."


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