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Author Topic: Why Do I Feel Guilty Sexting After My Breakup?!

April 20, 2019, 10:50:40 AM
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NeedAdvice


Me and my ex broke up almost 2 weeks ago and recently I’ve been feeling really horny so I decided to start sexting someone online and made an account on a casual hookup site. BUT I feel guilty for doing this, and I’m not entirely sure why. Is this normal? Any advice and help would be massively appreciated!

May 09, 2019, 01:33:17 AM
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Lovey


You don't have to since you're not together anymore. It's maybe your way of coping.

Beware if you dumped your ex for no reason though, Karma is waiting...

May 09, 2019, 01:34:00 AM
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Please help me sort out this situation .

We were dating long-distance with my ex ( he's 30 and I'm 26) for nearly 3 years when he quietly disappeared after a conversation we had where I playfully told him that I didn't care if he were to leave for another woman . I've always had a pattern of playing it cool with him because I've been scared of showing vulnerability . After that day though, we were broken up for 10 months since he never really said anything but quietly disappeared. He's an avoidant who despises conflicts . I didn't pursue him but made sure rumors got to him that I had someone else, only to hurt him the way he hurted me . Two months ago though we got back in touch  and he apologised for the way he went off the radar. I asked him some help with a project when I'll be back to my country and he showed enthusiasm and support, even making inside jokes.
Knowing he's also single, I confessed after that I still loved him and told him all the truth about having been single for the past months  but also lashed out at him, telling how he broke my heart . He never responded to my email.

In 3 months I'll be back in my country. Should I let him know I'm back or just leave things this way ? I can't help but feel like there's an "unfinished business".
Thanks a lot and sorry if there are mistakes, I'm a french speaker .

 

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