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Author Topic: Why did my ex show up to my game when we haven’t spoken in months?

February 09, 2019, 07:17:44 AM
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Me and my ex boyfriend ended things over 3 months ago and I haven’t spoke to him much since. I texted him a couple times shortly after the breakup and then one last time saying I’m sorry and I hope things are well with him and he didn’t respond to my last text. I blocked him on social media and I added him on sc but them unblocked him shortly after. I haven’t heard from him in months literally and I look over behind the bench at my basketball game today and there he is sitting in the stands right behind the bench. He is with a friend that is also a friend of mine so after the game I go talk to her. I don’t even look at him or acknowledged him and when we are done talking I go sit with my parents to watch the boys game. A couple times I glance over and think he is looking at me but I’m not for sure. I don’t know what to do because honestly I miss him but I know I need to not beg anymore. He broke up with me and doesn’t have a girlfriend. When we broke up he started talking to girls he didn’t when we were together and told our friend that he felt bad because I was such a nice girl and he was a shitty guy. What should I do? Should I reach out or not do anything?

February 16, 2019, 04:45:35 AM
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This is my first post, but I’ll be honest... I can remember things very vividly from my past, and maybe that doesn’t make me any different from others. I had a thing going with a girl when I was 17 years old, and even now (at 40) I wish I would’ve understood myself better and not broken things off the way I did. 1 son and 2 failed marriages later.

I guess what I’m getting at is there is no right or wrong answer, because if he loves you, he will regret it later. Sometimes you have to pour your heart out, and just hope the other person responds. If not, you can never say “I wish I would’ve done more”.


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