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February 09, 2020, 07:49:01 PM
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My ex and I had been together for 3 years. We met in college, she was a student from Germany and spent a year in the US together. It than became a long distance relationship for a bit. To give context, we had an unplanned pregnancy, and the child was adopted, but it was something that made us close. Although we were different in some ways, we rarely fought and there was never any abuse of any kind.

This year in August I moved in which her. Things were great until my untreated anxiety and depression, of about 10 years, started to bother me alot and she felt the affect. She felt I was too dependent on her for happiness, which i will admit was true. She was really all I had. I decided I wanted to go home to finally get some counseling, but she decided for now that we should break up. And that we would visit each other the following spring.

We did not talk for a month, when I finally messaged her. She said she loved me, it happened too fast and I suggested we did not talk for a while again and she told me she wanted to talk soon. I took this info as too positive and put pressure on her to give me another chance (too early I agree.) She laid down the law and said I need for time to get right and she needs time alone too.

Since then if it ever went too long without hearing from me she will text me. In December she started sending me alot of blushing smileys and texted alot. This lasted for about 2 months, I was happy building something up slowley. But one day she wanted to facetime and just have a nice conversation, and I blew it. I told her I loved her still and she got all nervous. She told me she still has feelings for me, misses me, wants me to visit and wants to talk to me all the time, but says right now she does not want to be with me, but wants me to visit in the summer. She told me it was never about meeting other people, and said she would be not happy if I was with other girls. Keep in mind she is very direct and honest, typical german haa.

Most recently I told her i was going to go no contact for a while, and focus on me, she last responded by telling me to stay strong and sent me a heart.

It is all so confusing. She texts my mom, that she misses her, sends her hearts. Her mom texts me, says they still have my toothbrush in the guest room in case i come back. And She has yet to remove any of my stuff including pictures of us from her apartment. It has been 4 months since we broke up.

What should I do? Where do we stand? Are there chances we can make it work again?

Mind you the breakup was not sad for both of us. As i left for my hometown she told me she loved me as we embraced.
« Last Edit: February 10, 2020, 02:11:51 PM by sirdesancti1 »

February 11, 2020, 03:14:31 AM
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February 24, 2020, 01:08:12 PM
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