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Author Topic: Things are better left unsaid

August 03, 2018, 10:55:19 AM
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hangingsandra20


To be left hanging without any idea why someone have to leave is really heartbreaking. My fiance, or maybe ex-fiance, left me without knowing what his reason is. I met him in the capital while I was doing an international dating blog. We were alright, even being sweet to me the last time we met. I tried to talk to him, asking for reasons, but I received no answer. I tried to contact him with any means possible but still, I received zero response. They said things are better left unsaid. But I deserve an explanation! Please help me! How do I see him?

August 05, 2018, 01:50:38 PM
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Jenniferdainty


Have you tried contacting his family or some of his closest friends? Because there might be a possibility that something bad happened to him. However, if you're sure that he's safe and he is just avoiding you, I guess it is better to start accepting everything no matter how painful it is. If you know that you have done enough in reaching out and connecting with him, there's nothing left to do but move on. The process of moving on is crucial that's why you need support from your family and trusted friends. Spend time with them so that you will not feel alone. You deserve better and to be happy. There's reason for everything and by time, you will be grateful that it all happened. Furthermore, I agree with the saying "Things are better left unsaid" because there are words that deserve to remain in the past and couldn't contribute anything to build up your present and future.     

August 05, 2018, 03:49:25 PM
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QueenFarLou


You definitely deserve an explanation. He can't just ditch out like that leaving you clueless. Try contacting his relatives or common friends using an unregistered number or name. I have a feeling he is avoiding you. Hugs girlfriend...

August 07, 2018, 12:49:37 PM
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hangingsandra20


You definitely deserve an explanation. He can't just ditch out like that leaving you clueless. Try contacting his relatives or common friends using an unregistered number or name. I have a feeling he is avoiding you. Hugs girlfriend...

I will try that; thanks! I have tries to ask his friends too but it seems like he really is hiding from me. I will try to talk to his mom.

August 07, 2018, 12:52:20 PM
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hangingsandra20


Have you tried contacting his family or some of his closest friends? Because there might be a possibility that something bad happened to him. However, if you're sure that he's safe and he is just avoiding you, I guess it is better to start accepting everything no matter how painful it is. If you know that you have done enough in reaching out and connecting with him, there's nothing left to do but move on. The process of moving on is crucial that's why you need support from your family and trusted friends. Spend time with them so that you will not feel alone. You deserve better and to be happy. There's reason for everything and by time, you will be grateful that it all happened. Furthermore, I agree with the saying "Things are better left unsaid" because there are words that deserve to remain in the past and couldn't contribute anything to build up your present and future.     

I haven't tried to talk to his family. I will try to reach our to them as soon as possible. His friends won't tell me where he is too. Thank you so much for your advice. I'll keep that in mind.

August 13, 2018, 12:16:43 PM
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alymae


I don't think that things are better left unsaid. I would rather know and feel the pain than not knowing what really happened. You deserve to know the truth. You have the right to ask for an explanation. Ask him. Tell him. Use every means to contact him. But if he really just don't want to see you or talk to you, don't force it. Love yourself. Never force yourself to someone who doesn't want you. Always remember that their is someone out there made for you.

August 19, 2018, 07:39:44 PM
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NesMarcos


Relationship is a commitment of two parties and this should be handled with trust, respect, love and honesty. If there were misunderstandings, better sit and talk to each other. Nevertheless, 'things are better left unsaid,' is just cowardly I may say of the person leaving. Hence, everything that is happening deserves an explanation and you really deserve it.  If he is really hiding from you, maybe he is not ready to talk about what really happened. Give him time and space for awhile, time will tell. And for you, if he already broke up with you, just let him go. There is someone who is better and will love you more, someone who really deserves your love.

August 21, 2018, 01:13:43 PM
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RoseKaizer


You really deserve an explanation, you really deserve an acceptable reason. Try to contact his friends or his family and explain what happen. Tell them that you need to talk to him for closure.

 

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