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June 01, 2019, 12:41:25 PM
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He finally erased me completely and it hurts. Gosh it hurts so darn bad. I knew it was coming, but what a punch in the gut!

When I realized this, I broke NC after 5 days and he did respond, but it wasn’t heartfelt at all. It was rather cold and that hurt even worse!

I need this heartache to stop, and I. D.o.n.t know how.

There’s absolutely no hope now. I’m so lost and broken!

June 06, 2019, 09:28:12 AM
Reply #1


I know how hard it is to get over someone when all you want is to hold them again.

I've been a Coach and a Therapist for 25 years and so I've seen hundreds of people where you are.  I just wanted to tell you that there is hope.  You will get through it. 

Getting over it happens once you start to accept it and understand that what you are going through is a process.  You then just have to take it step by step.

I wrote a guide to getting over a break up here;


June 07, 2019, 04:45:22 PM
Reply #2


I am really sorry this happened. I have helped many clients going through breakups. The best thing to do is focus on yourself and work on what makes you happy. Adapt new hobbies and continue to grow. Life isn't about how many times you get knocked down it's about how many times you get back up. Don't kick yourself about what you did wrong in the relationship or breaking the NC just learn from what you deem as mistakes and work to fix it.

If you need anything or have questions feel free to contact me.

A Man With Advice
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June 10, 2019, 04:29:54 AM
Reply #3


It is for the best. You should remove any pictures of the two of you as well as it will only help the healing process more. The longer you hold on to the small things the harder it will be to fully let go and become your own person


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