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July 29, 2020, 12:39:57 PM
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dawn_of_sheep


Hey all,

A while ago I felt that my wife gained too much weight.

She became really suicidal and was really hurt by it. She really loved me and had body image issues.

Since that happened I lied and said it was resentment. She says if I actually ever thought she was "ugly" that is crossing her boundaries and she wants to leave.

I realized that my issues with her body had more to do with my own insecurities and self worth, and I was able to figure it out.

But, she gets triggered, and it comes up, and then I lie about it. Because it makes her suicidal.

Does she deserve to know?
I think that I need to break up with her. For her sake. This relationship isn't working for her. But does she get to decide that or do I?

If I tell her the truth she is very likely going to attempt suicide. I may be able to stop the attempt. But then what about after that?

Do I tell her the truth? Let her decide how she wants to handle it?

Or do I lie and leave her, for her sake?

 

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