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March 03, 2020, 11:31:27 AM
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Hello. Just a background of our relationship. We are officemates but we rarely talk about work because we are on a different teams but our stations are on the same  floor. Also, we dont usually talk in the office coz we don't like our bosses to find out our relationship but both our colleagues, family and friends knows our relationship. We've been together as couple for 5 months now. At first he is really sweet to me. He will do all the efforts that he could possibly do even on his busy days.

But this past month, I feel that my boyfriend is ignoring me. I don't know if he still love me. He always says that he loves me but his actions were different. Most of the time he prefers watching tv or playing games rather than texting me.

I already confronted him about what I feel several times and it always leads to argument. He says he's just busy which I already know that is true but what I've been worrying is that he has time to play on this mobile but he will just text me before he sleep like goodnight babe sweet dreams and then thats it. I cannot talk to him after office hours coz he is always doing overtime. I also asked him several times if he still loves me his answer was always yes iloveyou.

Now I tried not to talk to him for 2 days now and he doesn't do any move to talk to me. Our pictures and status in social media also our nicknames in messenger were still there and not hidden so I don't think he cheats unless the other party is aware that he has a girlfriend but I doubt it coz I'm seeing him in the office. That's why there is a little hope that maybe he needs time. Should I just keep silent too and give him space. Or should I just give up and break up with him? What if I break up and then he just agreed without doing or asking anything. I already said all my thoughts but he still in silence and I don't want to flood him with questions like "why are you ignoring me"? Please help. 😭

March 07, 2020, 09:09:29 PM
Reply #1


I would follow your gut instinct on this one. If you feel like he is pushing you away then that is probably the case. Regardless, it sounds like you need/want more than what he is willing to give you and I'm sure there is another man out there somewhere that would love to text you before bed and spend more time with you. If your bf's lack of attentiveness is already an issue at 5 months then I doubt it will get better. I would suggest you tell him how you're feeling one last time and if he's not willing to work on things then I would move on.

April 02, 2020, 01:22:52 AM
Reply #2


It could be that your boyfriend right now just needs his space especially if he’s playing lots of video games? Keeping busy?

You can find ways to better see him more often and continue that spark you guys have deep down I would say interact with him more and definitely be positive and express yourself more frequently to him

Constantly remind each other how you feel and things will get better

If he hasn’t brought anything up further and just keeps to being “busy” then things are still good ;)

April 11, 2020, 01:37:14 PM
Reply #3


Talk to him face to face and open up to him how you are feeling. Maybe he just really needs space. The fact that he still remembers to text before he sleeps is still a good sign.

Just communicate and compromise. Maybe you can hangout at his place from time to time and just be there with him physically. Try to do some adjustments too.

If that doesn't work out, the decision is on you. IF you think you can't deal with that kind of treatment, then you always have a choice to leave. But remember, do something first. So you won't end up regretting it.

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