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April 12, 2018, 02:28:42 AM
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what if you don't have friends, because you just spend too much time with your 'ex', & stop hanging around with them for that one you love or loved?
« Last Edit: August 01, 2018, 05:01:36 AM by Brett »

April 12, 2018, 08:12:36 AM
Reply #1


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what if you don't have friends, because you just spend too much time with your 'ex', & stop hanging around with them for that one you love or loved?

I always try to ensure that I keep my friends close when I have a girlfriend, I think it's important to at least see them once in a while.

However, if you have lost some friends in that relationship process, then it may be worth re-contacting them? See if they want to hang out?

If they aren't interested, then take the opportunity to reinvent yourself ... meet new people, surround yourself with people that have the same or different interests, the world is your oyster when you break up from a relationship!
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April 14, 2018, 05:56:55 PM
Reply #2


I think it's necessary to have friends and a support network outside your romantic relationship - for your own health and wellbeing! If you don't have any friends nearby right now, have you thought about perhaps checking out your local area for clubs or other groups related to your interests? I've had to move around quite a lot as an adult so I've often had to make new friend groups and I found that was a big help.

April 14, 2018, 09:26:49 PM
Reply #3


Just contact them and ask them if they want to hang out. My friends would instantly say yes. That’s what kind of friendship we have. Even if we don’t see each other for a very long time, there’s no issue with them.

If they don’t want to, you should ask some other friends.

April 19, 2018, 08:26:51 AM
Reply #4


First reach out to them explain why you haven't been with them lately. If they are your true friend they will understand your explanation. If not don't bother calling them your friend again. Because just like in any other types of relationship real friends stand by you thru thick or thin. Happy or not they will never leave you.
The not so expert love adviser :)

April 19, 2018, 09:23:02 AM
Reply #5


First of all, I would like to say that measurement of wealth is how much friends do you have. It's  very important for both partners to have friends. Often people make mistakes and they lose partner because of friends, or they lose friends because of partner. But best way to avoid that is for both partners to have there friends separated, because most of the time friends are here to listen to your problems from home and not judge you, to give you some good advise if they have or just listen to you.   

April 19, 2018, 01:34:34 PM
Reply #6


Oftentimes, we tend to choose between friends and lovers, and most of us choose our lovers. We even push away those people who are important in our lives because of this choice we often make. But true friends are always there to understand us. They may not be the ones who will do the approaching but they will always be there, waiting for you to confide. Just reach out to them. I'm sure they miss your company too despite your shortcomings.

April 20, 2018, 08:09:14 PM
Reply #7


Well, breaking up with your ex signifies a new start for you so don't be afraid to start talking to other people, be it at work or school or just with your family members, or even try to start going out and meet other people outside your circles.

April 21, 2018, 07:42:06 AM
Reply #8


I think sometimes we should learn to balance everything, it is not really a good option to just spend the whole time for your partner since our life is not just turning to them. We still have our family and friends that are there for us and need also our care and attention. We must also show some Kindness and time for our friends because they are the ones that helps us in times of difficulties.

July 20, 2018, 10:41:49 AM
Reply #9


Your ex is not the only person in the world mate. There are other people around you who love you like your friend and your family. They also miss you and want to spend your time with you. And your ex-gets to spend the time with her friend but you can't. That's totally unfair to you.

August 01, 2018, 04:47:59 AM
Reply #10


Your ex is not the only person in the world, you don't need to spend your all time for your ex, you still have friends make your life more colorful with your friends because no man is an island.


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