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Author Topic: My ex fiancé postponed wedding 2 months before...now we're not together

June 29, 2019, 10:25:58 PM
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We knew each other about 1 year and a half and grew close to each other fast.. He was great with my kids and my family loved him. I thought everything was fine and we were not on the same page seems like the last two months.  Which was rare because we got along so well . So, when he told me he wanted to postpone the wedding due to how I communicate with him ,I took it as he doesn't want to marry me. When I feel like I can't fix/change things . I just be done with it/them and move on. I felt like my whole world was falling apart  in front of my eyes and there was nothing I could do. I told him it was over and said things out of hurt that I can't take back. After a couple days of thinking, I could see where he was coming from. During this time he was still wanting to be me and do counseling.  So when I  was on board to getting back together and doing counseling,  he then tells me he doesn't want to me with me anymore. During this time he said some hurtful things to me ,that I know he only said because he was hurt..I  was  expressing  to him how much he meant to me and we could get pass this because I still seen him as my husband.. It's been some back and forth things since then ,but he never said he wanted to work it .

I miss him so much and just confused on why did God allow him to come on my life and have me  fall in love with this man ,for it to be over just  like this. I lose my bestfriend/soulmate/husband  and it hurts. I loved him more than anyone else I ever been with.. I question how deep was his love for me if he could just be done like that if I was about to be his wife. Was it real? It's been almost two weeks and he has not reach out to me at all Before I was reaching out to him to try and fix and I'm at the point to where I will no longer put myself out there only to get hurt again  and  accept what he wants.

I've learn so much from this and understanding myself more and trying to fall back on love with  myself. Now I just need advice on moving on from this and try to stop thinking about him every minute because it's hard to get him out of my head.

July 01, 2019, 08:35:19 AM
Reply #1


I felt very sorry for you. My girlfriend dumped me last week and it was also very painful for me. I don't think I can help you that much but I think exercising can help you go on track.


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