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Author Topic: Moving away to forget his infidelity. Is it a good idea?

September 02, 2018, 09:30:15 PM
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want2ignore


I caught my husband on our own bed with his student few months ago. I still couldn’t believe he did that. I know our relationship is not at its best right now and the sex drive has been low on my mind but that doesn’t give him a free pass to cheat on me. Let alone with his student. Us Colombian women are very loving and caring of our husbands and families but I can’t find the heart to forget about what he did. We’ve been seeing a marriage counselor to try and fix our marriage. I can see him trying so hard to make our relationship work. So it didn’t come as a surprise to me when he suggested moving to Boston so we could start over. I didn’t give him my answer just yet. I’m not sure if moving will help. People who have been in this position, does it really help to move away? What about the kids? Will it do good for them to get uprooted?

September 03, 2018, 02:25:55 PM
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I caught my husband on our own bed with his student few months ago. I still couldn’t believe he did that. I know our relationship is not at its best right now and the sex drive has been low on my mind but that doesn’t give him a free pass to cheat on me. Let alone with his student. Us Colombian women are very loving and caring of our husbands and families but I can’t find the heart to forget about what he did. We’ve been seeing a marriage counselor to try and fix our marriage. I can see him trying so hard to make our relationship work. So it didn’t come as a surprise to me when he suggested moving to Boston so we could start over. I didn’t give him my answer just yet. I’m not sure if moving will help. People who have been in this position, does it really help to move away? What about the kids? Will it do good for them to get uprooted?

I am so sorry to hear what's happening @want2ignore, I do hope that you sort this soon or accept the situtation.

This doesn't sound good, especially as you could him cheating! This would be a big no-no in my books if I found my girlfriend cheated, let alone my wife (if I have one in the future).

You must have been distraught and you're right, this doesn't give him any right to cheat, especially as he's married and in a relationship, even if sex has been low - this doesn't give anyone the right.

May I ask why sex drive has been low? As this could be one of the reasons which had drove him to cheat on you, as some men do require regular sexual satisfaction?

Let us know how you get on.

 

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