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November 09, 2019, 07:14:49 AM
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yushi


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Hello,
I'll try to keep it as short as possible while containing the most important details and factors of the context.
We have been close friends with this girl for one year and then got into a relationship for around 4months or so. Everything was very good until she started to flake/ghost on me. First couple of times I let it go, upcoming times I confronted her. I've told her how I feel and that it is very disrespectful of her. She then apologized to me, she even cried and said how sorry she is. After a week or so it happened again and again. She would always apologize, but her actions wouldn't change, leading to me being very unsure about her feelings. Last time I confronted her she said ok I'll make it up to you, let's meet in a week on Friday evening. I then met her on Friday afternoon accidentally and she said "well I already have sleep schedule this evening" and then in the evening, she went out to hang out with my friends. I then texted her, well you said you were going to sleep (which in itself is completely disrespectful imo) but here you are, hanging out with friends, I don't want you texting me anymore. And that was it, however I feel just demolished, just because of the fact that she doesn't care, won't apologize or think twice about me. I think that rational me says I don't want to be in a relationship with a person whos toxic. But I stilll have plenty of doubts. The reason I am writing here is because I want to ask what should I do next? I don't want to text her because of how pathetic I would look like, let alone the patheticness I already have in her eyes. At the same time I don't think she will ever bother texting me, afterall I did say "do not text me". The paranoia really gets to me. Maybe its just me and she didn't do anything wrong. Maybe she is the perfect girl, because she fits the society norms and so on. I always end up blaming myself for everything, especially my feelings..

November 12, 2019, 08:33:33 AM
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Val


Keep yourself far from this girl, she is not respectful and toxic.