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Author Topic: Is it still worth pursuing my ex-girlfriend?

July 01, 2019, 08:38:56 AM
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Volcom23


My ex-girlfriend ended our relationship last week (we reached 7 months in a very serious relationship). One main reason of the breakup is that she can no longer bear the pain of staying in a relationship with me. My behavior is our main issue why we always had a fight. She keeps on pointing out even the smallest mistake (e.g., eating the proper way) I do. She said that all her criticisms are for my own good.

She already attempted to break up with me three times and the third time was the last time. I persisted to keep our relationship and hold on but this time she gave up. She said that I am immature and she cannot imagine living her whole life with me. She said we need to end the relationship to prevent more heartaches and help ourselves grow individually.

She said she doesn't have a choice but to end the relationship. She can no longer bear the pain anymore and she has other priorities in life (family and work). She said she was very thankful for me for all the good things I did to her and to her family.

I thought I was doing all the things that could make her happy and fulfill her needs but it seems we are out of sync. She felt pain in our relationship and I don't know why. I thought I was making her happy.

When we have our farewell, I still asked if we can have another chance in the future but she says she doesn't know. She said if I need someone to talk to in the future, we can keep in touch. She hugged me tightly and said she will miss me.

Should I still pursue her and hope she will change her mind or just get over and move on?

July 04, 2019, 10:58:43 AM
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tryingtowords


It seems like you should move on. You guys may be able to be friends but it doesn't sound like she wants to work through things. It wouldn't be fair for both of you to remain in pain.

July 04, 2019, 03:17:41 PM
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Lost79


I think you should let her be for a while and see what happens in the future

July 05, 2019, 07:35:56 PM
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jorge


It looks like it's time to move on. She seemed quite certain in ending the relationship.











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July 06, 2019, 11:44:50 PM
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leepk


To me too it seems like she wants the relationship to be over, but there are "plenty fish in the sea". Keep your head up

 

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