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Author Topic: I would like to know if there is any chances for us to get back?

February 18, 2020, 08:14:31 AM
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I know it sounds crazy and I am truly thinking myself is. We were in the relationship (Long D) from 2015 to 2018 and we were happy, almost everyday will talk to each other, will call or video-call from the social media. However, in 2018, I thought she did not love me as usual since she told me she ain't ready to have a bf..All my thoughts went to dark and I did not want to do, talk or response anything but to break up with her. She did not return or beg but accept this allowing me to BELIVE she is no longer love me as before.

In these years, (2018 - 2020), I have tried many ways to get her heart back by using letters, emails, gifts or any options that I can do but none of them seems working. Although she came back for a while, couple of time she will return suddenly...Besides the first she blocked me suddenly and gone, each time I will scold her and block her by her action. I did not know why she returned and she seems acting nothing happened with us...She ignored me for all the letters, emails and gifts that I sent and the day that I cried the most and willing to give up , she suddenly came back, I do not know why... I thought that is a fake hope, a lie...

Right now, she blocked me like usual and all the social media is gone. Even though the email is still fine, not yet blocking, she still ignored me. People said that the reason she hated me like this is because I was not myself, kept blaming on her for the faults. And some say, she will return again as she did it much time..

I do not know why she returns, and I do not know why she cannot talk to me with deep and I do not understand her. She is so unlike other women, some will be gone for the entirety and never returned, left me here for crying. She did it too but she returned...I do not know why I do not know what I can do? Is it possible for us to be back together? I wish I can understand what she is thinking and I wish she can be back...

She is Aquarius and I am Sagittarius, I am from Hong Kong and she is Bangkok. Can anyone help me? I am truly depressed....I know I love her, but this love hurts me and her. I do not know how to stop this pan.
« Last Edit: February 18, 2020, 08:19:03 AM by brunodc »

February 20, 2020, 10:14:00 AM
Reply #1


Man, this is fiction, not real relation. THere is nothing to be concerned.
Chit chat start to be "i have feelings", but it still not real.

Move on, look around you and then you will understand meaning of relationship.
Editor on real place for relationships

February 21, 2020, 02:43:53 PM
Reply #2


I will be a hypocrite because I am also here for a similar issue but we need to “learn the power to walk away”
Take control of your life back.
Look up “learn the power to walk away” and read The 3% man, it’s free on Audible for a 30 day trial.

You must respect yourself before a woman will truly want you. You need to a a strong man, driven in his purpose in life and the woman is merely an accessory to the man.
You must define yourself and become desirable to woman, show them your confidence and strength as an emotionally stable Man!
Begging, crying, whimpering and acting weak will only drive the woman further and further way!

Stand up, be a man, get your life together and when you are content, strong, self sufficient and strong in your convictions, only then will you find a woman who respects you and treats you with the dignity you deserve.

Try “ghosting” her the next few times she attempts contacting you. Go into “no contact” (look it up) for a while and watch how her desirability for you gains tremendously.

Good luck,


February 22, 2020, 09:18:59 PM
Reply #3


As bad as it hurts to say because I’m going through a break up as well. I don’t think there is any chance. I really hope you are able to move on. I know his hard it can be so good luck!

February 29, 2020, 10:01:05 PM
Reply #4


I would like to know if we have chance and that's all.

All those psychologist or relationship coach claimed this is a chance, but I did not see it. Not to mention those stuffs I have done, while watching her graduation, travelling or shit, I feel pain, hatred and disappointment.

About the part of ghosting, I don't even believe if she will return or not. And I cannot deal with my negative feelings about her and bring too much.


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