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Author Topic: I should be the one exchanging vows with you

August 20, 2018, 10:33:27 AM
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splitvision


You were there, walking down the aisle, dressed in white, beautifully covered with makeup, walking with long heels, arms tangled in your father. I wish I could be the one waiting for you in the altar, but I’m not. What we had was a short affair. Still, I should thank you for loving me despite my weaknesses and mistakes. I should be the one exchanging vows with you. It should be me who will spend forever with you. But all those aspirations will never happen. Should I stay? Or should I go?

August 21, 2018, 10:22:44 AM
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goodevening


You were there, walking down the aisle, dressed in white, beautifully covered with makeup, walking with long heels, arms tangled in your father. I wish I could be the one waiting for you in the altar, but I’m not. What we had was a short affair. Still, I should thank you for loving me despite my weaknesses and mistakes. I should be the one exchanging vows with you. It should be me who will spend forever with you. But all those aspirations will never happen. Should I stay? Or should I go?

@splitvision You need to give us some more information.

Were you having an affair with this woman? Was she cheating on her partner?

What happened? How old are you both? What stages are you both at in your lives?

August 25, 2018, 09:20:42 AM
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Corzhens


Whatever your kind of relationship was it is time to move on because from what I understand with your post is that you have broken up already and probably she is going to be married to another guy. There's no use in moping because you will just spite yourself and aggravate the grief and sorrow of losing her. Set your sights in another direction. Socialize or indulge in a new activity like a hobby or joining a group. Just do anything that will keep your mind busy and away from that sad past.