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Author Topic: I miss my ex-boyfriend so much

August 17, 2018, 11:12:37 AM
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hawkgirl92


I’ve been single for 8 months already but I can’t get over him yet. My ex-boyfriend who cheated on me through seeing another woman has left a big scar in my heart. But still, I miss him. I miss him so bad. Is that even possible for someone who was hurt so much? And I think I’m still into him. But a part of me wants to move on already, I think I deserve someone better. My friends keep on telling me that I should look for outlets to move on, like meeting some old colleagues or signing up to foreign dating events. But the main question is, can I do it? Please help me.

August 18, 2018, 02:38:35 PM
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Lissiel


A broken heart is not something that can be healed over the night. It's normal to miss your ex-boyfriend for you still love him so much and love is something that will be gone just like that. Moving on is a process and it takes time. For now, you always ask yourself if you can move on from him and that answer for that is still unclear it's because everything is still fresh. Right now you're in pain, and you have given so much love to someone and betrayed you. It's time to love and focus on yourself now, even your ex will go back to you, the damage of what he did had been done and that pain will still be there and you can't be completely happy.

August 19, 2018, 11:54:41 AM
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Corzhens


My usual suggestion for one who is recovering from a breakup is to socialize. But that doesn't mean for you to look for a replacement to your ex. Socializing is one way of diverting your attention and opening up new horizons. Enjoy life, enjoy the company of friends and new friends. Another advice is to avoid chatting with someone who can be a prospective replacement for your ex. Your mind is weak when it comes to romance because you are on the recovery stage. Avoid getting in love now.

August 19, 2018, 05:00:31 PM
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wallet


I remember how I have suffered for three years after my ex-girlfriend, you know what healed me? I met my wife and I fall in love, you should meet new men, it is hard but you can do it, maybe you will meet someone who will make you fall in love and you will be happy again.

August 20, 2018, 09:03:10 AM
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hawkgirl92


I remember how I have suffered for three years after my ex-girlfriend, you know what healed me? I met my wife and I fall in love, you should meet new men, it is hard but you can do it, maybe you will meet someone who will make you fall in love and you will be happy again.

Hi, thank you for this comment. Yeah, I think you are right. Gonna give myself a break and hoping to fall in love gain but this time, it's with the right man. :)

August 20, 2018, 09:04:25 AM
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hawkgirl92


My usual suggestion for one who is recovering from a breakup is to socialize. But that doesn't mean for you to look for a replacement to your ex. Socializing is one way of diverting your attention and opening up new horizons. Enjoy life, enjoy the company of friends and new friends. Another advice is to avoid chatting with someone who can be a prospective replacement for your ex. Your mind is weak when it comes to romance because you are on the recovery stage. Avoid getting in love now.

I'm giving myself a break first before committing again. Thanks for the advice!

August 20, 2018, 09:06:22 AM
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hawkgirl92


A broken heart is not something that can be healed over the night. It's normal to miss your ex-boyfriend for you still love him so much and love is something that will be gone just like that. Moving on is a process and it takes time. For now, you always ask yourself if you can move on from him and that answer for that is still unclear it's because everything is still fresh. Right now you're in pain, and you have given so much love to someone and betrayed you. It's time to love and focus on yourself now, even your ex will go back to you, the damage of what he did had been done and that pain will still be there and you can't be completely happy.

Hi, thanks for this! I'll follow your advice.

August 23, 2018, 06:22:56 PM
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jennyfermanuel


8 months? I moved on with my first love after two years girl. Believe me, you'll get over it as time goes by. Just go on be busy with your life. Socialize with others, meet new people. Do whatever you think that makes you busy and makes you forget about that heartache. It won't be easy, but believe me. You'll get there. Missing him is just a part of moving on, but don't make it a reason to get back to him or approach him again. You'll get through it, someone will come and you will realize that you will still be able to love someone more than you have loved your ex-boyfriend.

 

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