My ex-wife had both an iPhone and a Macbook. If you know anything about iMessage, you know this means that she could send and receive texts from her laptop. I was using her laptop for homework (with her permission) while she was at work. She got a text message from her ex, who she talked with on a regular basis. I was uncomfortable with him since he was 'the one that got away,' but he was married and she insisted she just thought of him as a good friend and I chose to believe and trust my then-wife. But the text he sent her that day seemed strange, just randomly saying 'Just textin to say I love you' or something like that, and it just popped up in the corner for me to read. I couldn't open the messages as it was locked with password.I told my work colleague about it and she introduced me to y3llowl4bs who i later hired to get access to her dms, email, imessage and all other of his instant messaging passwords. After i got hold of the password, I found hours of sexting messages. Hours. She'd been sexting him that morning even, when I had slept next to her all night and we'd cuddled and kissed goodbye when she went to work. I wasn't home when she returned. I filed for divorce three days later, but im thinking of changing my mind and forgive her, what should i do?

cheaters are always terrible and selfish people... See it as simple betrayal and keep it moving.. dont even change your mind, similar issue happened to me with my ex husband too who i got hold of his secrete messages through the help of y3llowl4bs too, if not for them i'd have still been in that toxic relationship, so keep it moving and ull do just fine... Cheers!!

anyone who cheats should expect to get dumped once caught, so file for that divorce and get your life moving, trust me its more peeaceful

You could only forgive her if she really wants you to forgive her. I know you love her. But keeping your head cool and walking away should be the only thing you are doing. If she really really loves you and really understands how bad she messed up. She would move heaven and earth to get a second change and make a grant gesture. Maybe if she does that then in time you can forgive her. But for now just walk away