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May 11, 2019, 04:00:20 AM
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Suffolk04


Hi, would like some advice on what I should do from people who don't know me.

Anyways, my girlfriend broke up with me 3 days ago out of the blue after 1.5 years. She broke down in tears saying her feelings have changed, not ready to settle down and lets break but don't wait for me, and there isn't anyone else.

We never argued/fell out, I treated her like no one else ever did, not sure what I did wrong.

I'm I right in thinking she still cares about me with her bursting into tears? Currently doing the no contact rule, should I reach out to her in future or wait and hope she contacts me?

May 12, 2019, 12:27:32 PM
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Vanilla


I think it’s better you talk to her when you both will be able to talk to each other because there’s a chance that the reason why she broke up with you has nothing to do with you two and there’s an other that she doesn’t feel the same anymore, and so, she may have cried because she didn’t want to hurt you...
Good luck to you and hope I have helped a bit!

May 13, 2019, 06:06:20 AM
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Dadof2


Hi, would like some advice on what I should do from people who don't know me.

Anyways, my girlfriend broke up with me 3 days ago out of the blue after 1.5 years. She broke down in tears saying her feelings have changed, not ready to settle down and lets break but don't wait for me, and there isn't anyone else.

We never argued/fell out, I treated her like no one else ever did, not sure what I did wrong.

I'm I right in thinking she still cares about me with her bursting into tears? Currently doing the no contact rule, should I reach out to her in future or wait and hope she contacts me?

Don't contact her at all for a month. If she misses you then that's fine but if not then you know that she wasn't worth it. Go out with your mates and meet someone new too

October 06, 2019, 07:21:37 PM
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throaway2817


Hi, would like some advice on what I should do from people who don't know me.

Anyways, my girlfriend broke up with me 3 days ago out of the blue after 1.5 years. She broke down in tears saying her feelings have changed, not ready to settle down and lets break but don't wait for me, and there isn't anyone else.

We never argued/fell out, I treated her like no one else ever did, not sure what I did wrong.

I'm I right in thinking she still cares about me with her bursting into tears? Currently doing the no contact rule, should I reach out to her in future or wait and hope she contacts me?

Did you pressure her in some sort of way? Maybe there was a direct/indirect way that you wanted to move forward, but she didn't want to yet.

 

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