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Author Topic: Fiance left after 5 years

September 08, 2019, 11:07:16 AM
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Soren0307


My ex fiance now just broke up with me after 5 years.  She says she wants to live by herself and wants time to herself.  She says it is her, not me.  I have seen a few things that she has written since she left me and she says she is depressed.  She told a friend that she knows I love her and she loves me but is not in love with me.  She and I had a daughter years ago but we gave her up for adoption.  She now has several friends who are pregnant and are giving birth the month she gave birth to our daughter.  I still really love her but finding it hard to move on cause we are still living together.  Nether one of us can afford to move out on our own right now and I am saving money to move out with my son.  I want to help her with her depression but I know that you cant force that up on anyone.  They have to ask for the help and really want it.  Anyone have any ideas how to make this easier for me and my son till I can find a place for us to move to and then heal.

September 18, 2019, 01:39:12 PM
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chrishen


If you are to live together like that because of financial constraints, the best thing to do would be to sit down and have a talk about how you can make life easier for eachother without trying to think that "You want to make it work." It sounds like this is not something she wants, and it's stressful knowing that you do want it. It's a messed up situation, and similar to one i've actually been in myself - and we had hte talk, slept apart, and I quickly got the money i needed together to get out and into my own place.

Between those times, it was tough - but leading up to me moving out, because of the non-pressure by eachother to discuss making it work, and accepting things for what they were (completely over) we were actually hanging out as friends towards teh end, and it was... i wont say fine.... it was weird, but it was civil. The mourning was kind of put on hold, so to speak, which I know is unhealthy, but if it's your only option see for the sake of everyones sanity if you can't revert to being like roommates until you have to move.

September 18, 2019, 08:30:16 PM
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