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Author Topic: Ex still have feelings for me?

April 07, 2019, 03:31:08 PM
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will_m3s


So me and my ex gf of 3 years have been broken up for awhile now. I am not still in love with her but I do miss her at times and it doesn’t feel great that she is with someone else, but I do not want to get back together with her. Over the course of the past few months she has kept reaching out to me because we were the best of friends before we started dating and she wants me in her life. We r now currently rebuilding our friendship but something has surprised me. Senior prom is coming up and my ex said that I couldn’t go with a few girls cause they “hit too close to home.” Some of the girls were mean to her while we were dating and one of them is her friend, but I do not understand why I cannot take the girls that I want. She doesn’t still have romantic feelings for me right? Can someone explain this to me?

April 13, 2019, 12:01:35 PM
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confusedteen


It's probably jealousy. She may not have any feelings for you left, but because she once did (and for a long time) , it's now difficult for her to accept the fact that there will be other girls in your life. When my ex broke up with me I still missed him after 2 months but I had no intention of getting back together with him. I would get upset and jealous over him hanging out with girls that I didn't particularly like. Of course, the two of you will never have a "normal" relationship (friendship) because of your past. There will always be some feelings, but they won't be too important. However, she doesn't have any control over you now. You should be able to spend time with whoever you want. If it bothers you that she finds it upsetting you should definitely talk with her about it and explain to her how you see the situation.

 

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