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Author Topic: Do You Think There Was More To This Breakup?

May 08, 2019, 12:15:56 PM
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For the last three months, I had been dating this woman. We had great chemistry together and a lot of the same interests. About two months into our relationship, she moved to a new town in another state that was about an hour away from where I lived. Despite that, we continued to meet each other half way and I would spend the night at her place, every other weekend.

Last weekend, I was staying at her place and we had plans to hang out with her best friend, her cousin and his girlfriend. We went out for dinner and to an Arcade place, Throughout the evening, her cousin was being extremely generous and paid for dinner and a few rounds of drinks for everyone. As a response, I bought everyone a round of drinks.

The following week, she suddenly started getting distant with her communication and abruptly broke up with me via text message. In her text she listed a number of reasons.

- She was upset because I let her cousin paid for the dinner, even though he went to the waiter and personally paid for it himself while he excused himself to use the men's room.

- We always used to split the bill whenever we went out to dinner, which was always at her insistence. She always used to tell me that she "wasn't the kind of girl who expects guys to always pay for everything."

- Two weeks ago, while she was home sick and I was away, despite being in contact with her throughout the week checking up on her. She was angry because she said that I never asked her if she needed anything.

- She said that I left a wet towel on the floor of her bedroom when I last stayed over her apartment.

Since the breakup, I tried to apologize and talk to her but she is not answering my texts and she defriended me on Facebook.

I'm a little confused by some of her reasons and think that she some of her reasons were petty and a little exaggerated, leading me to believe that she had another reason for breaking up with me. What do you think?

May 08, 2019, 08:07:52 PM
Reply #1


Woaah I'd recommend you move on , her reasons are really lame, and it seems like she was just looking for something to end things with you . I'm really sorry, but she's really not worth it.

May 20, 2019, 02:23:09 AM
Reply #2


I’m sorry you had to go through that. It looks like there was more to the break up but unfortunately there is no way of knowing if she cuts off all contact with you. The best thing you can do for yourself is to let her go.


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