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Author Topic: Do I have any chance?

October 15, 2019, 10:14:24 AM
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A month ago me and my ex broke up after she discovered that I had stolen £80 from a till at the place she works. I initially denied it but was caught on CCTV. We were together 5 months and had been friends for a year prior.

She immediately ended the relationship after she found out what I had done. She blocked me her on all forms of contact: FB, Whatsapp, phone, text etc. Her friends and family also blocked and deleted me on FB.

I begged, pleaded, apologised, wrote a letter, contacted her family and friends (before being blocked), went to her house, but to avail.

I stopped trying to get in contact 3 days after the breakup.

Two weeks after the breakup I recieved a message from her saying she was ready to talk but we would not be getting back together or even being friends.

I agreed.

After texting her to agree a time, place and date, she text me saying she had changed her mind and that talking wouldn't solve anything. She wanted to move on with her life and stop dwelling on it, she said. Have a good life were her final words.

I responded that I understood and wished her the best. I did not recieve any further communication.

This was the last contact I had with her 3 days ago.

I've been advised to completely leave her alone which I am sticking to.

However I am unable to stop thinking about her and wondering if she will ever contact me again or if I will ever see her again.

I understand this is vague and maybe I need to provide more detail, which I will upon request.

Do I have any chance at speaking to her again, being friends, having a civil conversation?

October 15, 2019, 12:58:07 PM
Reply #1


What you did at her place of work was embarrassing though, if the tables were turned you might do worse... I'd advise you to keep your distance with her, stop talking or trying to talk to her...these are few things we have to live with as we grow... have a great life ahead, you'll still meet alot of wonderful people along your way 8)

October 30, 2019, 07:32:41 AM
Reply #2


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November 07, 2019, 01:29:51 AM
Reply #3


The best you can do is try to forget about her. She's made it very obvious it's over for her. I know life sucks sometimes, but you'll feel better eventually.

March 25, 2020, 04:19:59 AM
Reply #4


Nope to her your a thief and a liar that won't change

April 02, 2020, 01:09:21 AM
Reply #5


We all make mistakes and at some point we’ll see how bad we were really at the moment

To be honest this is pretty negative with the stealing and being caught on camera

But since you have the guts to love her again and plead for her back then that’s exactly what you’re going to have to do

She has thought you over and she was being honest with the fact she’ll hear from you again, that means you are lucky and shouldn’t abuse her again

But more in there is that you have to let her know just EXACTLY HOW SORRY you are about the things that you did and you would have to come out and tell her that what you did was completely wrong of you..

We are all there to understand our mistakes but this is really something negative to give to your girlfriend, but making it up with her with complete integrity is what you need

April 04, 2020, 10:38:01 PM
Reply #6


I understand the difficulty of trying to forget about someone and move on.

If she flat out cut communications, as hard as it is, it's probably best to continue to not talk or reach out. You may risk coming across as a nuisance, which could just make the situation more difficult.

You could take this as a learning situation though. Some people aren't meant to be in your life forever. This could be a time to improve yourself, so that when you meet someone else, someone who's even better, you'll hopefully find yourself feeling more fulfilled and at peace. 

Best of luck!


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