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Author Topic: Did my boyfriend lose interest in me?

October 02, 2019, 10:28:18 PM
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Devially


Hi, I’m a 16 year old girl going through my first relationship. Shocking that it wasn’t at a younger age, but oh well. So, let me explain my situation.
I had this friend that I met last year and we hit it off almost immediately. We made each other laugh constantly and we were always hanging around each other in school. By the end of the year, and a few weeks before we started dating, my friends even told me he seemed a lot happier around me.
Fast forward to today, we started dating a few months ago, right before the end of school. We’ve been together for about 4-5 months and we almost fell quickly in love. A little bit too quickly. Anyway, just a week ago he told me he needed a break from me because I have a lot of problems that I vent about. It was valid, to tell you the truth, I was going through a lot of stress. I still am, and he felt like the only person I could go to. And so, we took a break, and the next day he told me he wanted to break up since he felt that we were both distant.
It was torture for me, to say the least. But! He texted me a couple days later and told me that we could make this work, and that he still loved me. Of course, I still loved him. He asked to come over that weekend because we hadn’t seen each other in a while, and I agreed. Here’s where my problem comes in.
It was the night before he was supposed to come over (granted, neither of us can drive legally yet) and I asked to confirm he was still coming. He told me that his mom wasn’t gonna be home anymore, so I worked my ass off to get someone to pick him up with me. When I tell him this, he tells me he made plans with his friend.
I was heartbroken over this, but I sucked it up. Sunday night I texted him goodnight and that I loved him, and he didn’t read it until Tuesday. I know he had his phone because my friend texted him just fine. But after that, I tried to text him, and he was EXTREMELY distant with me. The day after that, today, I texted him again and he never read it. Sure he’s busy but, I know him and I know when he ISN’T busy, so it really confused me. Overall, I feel like he’s lost feelings for me, but he won’t talk about it. I’m extremely confused and since this is my first relationship, I don’t know what to do.

Edit: so... after a week of me texting him and him not reading anything I sent... he texted me that Sunday and told me a bunch of stuff like how he was busy and such. I forgave him, because honestly he seemed really genuine, and he tried to make up for it. That all came crashing that next weekend. Saturday night I told him I’d call him, but I was in the car so I told him he’d have to wait. When I got home, a group chat of mine kept trying to call me, so I forgot to call him. He finally texted me a few moments before my mom told me to give her my phone after a little incident with my brother, and I told him I was sorry and that I’d call him the next day. The conversation went exactly like this, starting from when he texted me when my group chat friends were calling me.

Him: I’m assuming you’re home now
Me: yeah but now my mom is making me put my phone up
Me: Fuck
Me: I’ll call you tmrw I promise
Him: k
Me: I love you

And then he never responded.
My mom gave me my phone back at about 6:30 PM the next day (Sunday), and he kept trying to text me all day
Once I got it back, here’s what happened:

Me: Shit, I’m sorry, my mom took my phone for most of the day
Him: whatever
Me: ooooook then
Him: I “gotta go”
Me: I-
Me: whatever then

So now I’m just... even more confused
« Last Edit: October 15, 2019, 03:23:50 PM by Devially »

January 21, 2020, 01:33:46 AM
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ariachris56


Maybe but I ma not sure dear. You need to talk to him and ask him bravely.

January 21, 2020, 02:31:08 AM
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Lovelycomplex1919


In this cases, the best option is to be brave and ask him, otherwise you will never know

January 21, 2020, 11:16:59 AM
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optimist_me


Wow, those messages seem a little one-sided, but there could be a range of things going on with him. I wouldn't jump to conclusions of him losing interest. Sometimes there are deeper underlying issues that he could be keeping from you. I would have an honest talk with him to get to the bottom of what's going on.

February 11, 2020, 03:08:16 AM
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