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Author Topic: Did I overreact when I broke up with my ex?

September 03, 2019, 09:37:03 PM
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I broke up with my ex a month ago because I snooped through his social media (by accident, his WhatsApp web was already open) and found him flirting with women and I also found him chatting up his old female childhood friend saying how he wanted to fuck her when he was high on coke; all 4 months after we became official. I also found text messages between him and his ex girlfriend from 10 years ago who he still talk to (who lives in another country). He told her these messages a year after we became official:

“Your first love is the purest”

“It’s been 10 years and we never met”

“Spend 3 months with me”

“I love you I will always love you and I will always take care of you”

“Come for my birthday”

“Let me pay your rent and take care of you and get you a visa”

“A vacation with you would be a dream come true”

“I’m not lonely anymore now that you’re here”

“I want you, I want to kiss you, kiss me to show it’s real”

“I want you back”

“I don’t deserve you”

“Nobody gets me like you do”

“The thought of you with someone else tears me up :(

“It would hurt seeing you with someone else”

He also sent her the same love songs he sent me and his ex asked him if he broke up with his girlfriend and he said “no my relationships either failed or was a non starter”.

I confronted my ex about this and he said that he didn’t mean what he said, he was just trying to make her feel better, he was just “fibbing” with her, he was drunk and doesn’t remember saying these things (even though these messages were being exchanged for 3 weeks?), and when I asked him “why did you say you want your ex back?” He said “I do want her back...on track.”

Was I overreacting when I broke up with him? I told him he betrayed my trust by lying to my face about what he told his ex, along with flirting with other women. He says he didn’t actually cheat because he didn’t sleep with other women but I said he still crossed my boundaries. The messages exchanged between him and his ex hurt the most.

 

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