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Author Topic: Confusing friendzone

February 28, 2019, 06:40:55 AM
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Flo2901


So my ex and I broke up about 6 months ago... He did mistakes, I did too, he didn’t know if he wanted to be in a relationship even if he loved me and so I ended it. We had a hard time and we missed each others very much though, so we decided to try to be friends. He is who I consider my best friend, and I believe I am for him too... We spoke about the fact that we didn’t want to be in a serious relationship right now after what our breakup did to us, and with our chemistry, we started to have sex together again (yeah I know...). Now I told him that I was going on non-serious date (to slowly move on), since we’re friends I think we should be able to tell that to each other. I know he does too (a lot), but for a curious reason, he hides it from me... Why would he do that? Does he want to avoid hurting me even if he knows I do the same? Is it because he wants to keep his chances with me in the future? None of those reasons? I’m confused... 

March 12, 2019, 04:26:48 PM
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libra_moon


Hi :)

Being friends after a fresh breakup is hard and I don't think the best idea. It is because you BOTH still have feelings that are anything but friendship. I understand wanting to keep in touch because you still care for him and him, you. However, it is best to not talk for a bit. As for the sex-honestly, no one and I mean NO ONE can blame you for that. It isn't just a casual hookup, it's passion and love and every girl that has been in your shoes gets it. So please don't feel bad! As for the dating thing-I'm the same as him. I don't know why he's trying to hide it but for me, I don't want to tell the guy that I STILL love that I'm dating other guys. It feels weird-like why talk about that with the person I still like? Maybe he doesn't want to hurt you, but I doubt it's that since you are spilling the beans on your side. I think he feels uncomfortable or maybe he still holds a torch for you, and doesn't want to talk about other girls but he still cares for you.

 

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