My (ex)girlfriend and I have been having a lot of problems that we have been trying to work through. We have both confided in our best friends. My best friend's advice is to do what I want. Her advice was for her to leave me.
I don't know the girl all that well and her opinion on me has been based on hearing the bad my girlfriend has told her. She doesn't even want to get to know me. The last interaction we had together she completely spun everything I did and made it seem like I attacked her(verbally of course). She felt so strongly about it that she told her to choose between me or her. Of course it sends my ex into a frenzy trying to decide. I went ahead and made the choice to leave.
It was one of the hardest decisions I have made but I thought it was for the best. My heart is hurting because I feel like I've lost the love of my life. I want to get back with her but I know that as long as her friend is there she will constantly be trying to convince her to leave me.
My question is has anyone here had a girlfriend who's best friend hated you and how did you handle it?