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December 21, 2019, 01:02:46 AM
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Before you read this please do not judge me :(

I was in a same sex relationship with a woman for 2 years. We broke up in October. She has a best friend of 15 years, they dated in 2016 and decided they were better off as friends but their relationship made me really insecure. I told my gf she couldn’t speak to this friend anymore. Hindsight it was the wrong thing to do, 2 months after i told her this i saw a text message In her phone saying hey babe from the best friend and i lost it. I spoke so negatively to her i called her a liar cheater i wished she was dead said i would poison her. I threatened to call ICE on her to get her deported and said I’d out her to her family for lying and breaking my trust. I was horrible. I blasted her friends information all on the internet (tinder, CL) and even wished she would die like her sister died from cancer. Once i calmed down i realized i went overboard. I tried to reconcile but my ex decided she could not be with me since i tried to ruin her life. I miss her so much. Idk what to do now. I hope she can forgive me. I begged, pleaded and she just blatantly told me to move on. Can i fix this?

December 21, 2019, 12:13:26 PM
Reply #1


 I will be brutally honest but non judgmental, (PS : Forgive me my English is a bit rusty )

So you had a relationship and you ruined it by thinking that your Significant other is cheating on you, you could have been right or wrong but let's not judge that.
First, you asked your girlfriend to not talk to her ex, I would't signify that because they are friends now and you cannot stop friends from chatting,
Second, you just busted with anger by just a text message. The text could have been a joke. a friendly gesture, a prank; there could be a million other things. Yet you decided to act like a complete moron (Pardon my boldness and language) and say a lot of terrible things. remember a broken heart and a mark left by harsh words cannot be mended.
Third, you can never fix this, this cannot be fixed.

(If anyone has any objection or just wanna discuss, feel free to email)

January 03, 2020, 04:59:18 PM
Reply #2


To be honest, I could not be with you again if you said all those things to me.
I know that break ups and potentially getting cheated on are very emotional, but that was not okay.
Let your girlfriend have other female friends, it's okay. I send some of my friends some kissy emojis and everthing on a daily basis and I still do not want to be with them or anything. That's just how most women express themselves, I believe.


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